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Abalobi bezindaba bathole i-The Reward Foundation futhi basakaza izwi ngomsebenzi wethu kubandakanya: izifundo zethu mayelana nezingozi ezivela esikhathini eside ezithinta izithombe zobulili ezingcolile; isimemo sokusebenza kahle, ukuqeqeshwa kocansi okugxilwe ebuchosheni kuzo zonke izikole; isidingo sokuqeqesha abahlinzeki bezempilo be-NHS ekubhebhekeni kocansi kanye nomnikelo wethu ucwaningo kwizinkinga zocansi ezenzelwe ucansi nokucindezeleka kokuziphatha ngokocansi. Leli khasi libonisa ukubonakala kwethu emaphephandabeni nasenkundleni. Sithemba ukuthumela izindaba eziningi njengoba i-2019 iqhubeka.

Uma ubona indaba equkethe i-TRF esingayifuni, sicela usithumelele inothi mayelana nayo usebenzisa ifomu lokuxhumana ngezansi kuleli khasi.

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Isici sempilo kanye nesiko, umbhalo owenziwe nguRoisin Agnew. Ishicilelwe online 9 Disemba 2019

Ukukhuphuka okuyingozi kokuzivikela 'ocansini olunobunzima' nokuthi kusho ukuthini kwabesifazane

UGrace Millane, India Chipchase, uNatalie Connolly: ukulandisa okuyimfihlo kwabesifazane ngasese kuyasetshenziswa ngabo ekufeni

Udlame lwezocansi olubhekiswe kwabesifazane luyanda e-UK ngezindlela ezethusayo nezingaqondakali kancane. Kusuka ekusetshenzisweni kwemibhalo yabantu besifazane yangasese ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwabo kokubulala kuye ekudumeni nasekusetshenzisweni kabi kwemikhuba ye-BDSM, imvamisa kusolwa ubiquity bezithombe ezingcolile zobukhuni. Okusalokhu kungacaci ukuthi iyini imbangela yalolu dlame olusha lodlame lwabesilisa, nokuthi abantu besifazane abahlanganyela kanjani futhi ezikhulayo zokuzibandakanya ocansini oluthe xaxa bayakhuluma nenkinga efinyelela kakhulu ocansini namuhla.

The ukubulawa komuntu osemuva waseBrithani, uGrace Millane nesivivinyo esiphakeme esilandelile sabangela ukukhathazeka okujulile, okuqokomisa indlela izindaba zangasese zabesifazane ezingasese ezingasetshenziswa ngazo ngabo njengengxenye yokuvikela 'ucansi olubi'.

Ngosuku olwandulela usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe lwama-22, uMillane - owayepakisha i-New Zealand - wahamba ngosuku nomuntu ahlangana nalo eTinder. Ngemuva kokuchitha ubusuku, laba bobabili babuyela ekhaya lakhe lapho afike ambopha khona ngenkani waze washona ngocansi. Yize iJaji likhiphe isinqumo esinecala ngenyanga edlule, leli cala uqobo lazwakalisa ukuthukuthela ngendlela eyethulwe ngayo impilo yocansi kaGrace njengobufakazi obumelene naye. Ukubamba iqhaza kwakhe kwangaphambilini kwi-BDSM nokusebenzisa izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuqomisana njenge-Whiplr kwasetshenziswa njengobufakazi bokuthi wayezijabulela izinhlobo ezithile zemikhuba, okusho ukuthi lokhu kwakuyimeko 'yemidlalo yezocansi engahambanga kahle'. Omunye wabasolwa abakade bethandana naye wabizelwa ezikhundleni zezokuvikela ukuthi afakazele ukuthi uGrace uhlanganyela ekushayeleni inkanuko yezocansi.

Ngaphesheya kwe-UK eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, bekukhona Amaphesenti angama-90 akhuphuka ekuvikelweni 'kocansi olubi', futhi kule minyaka emihlanu edlule kube yimpumelelo ezicishe zibe yingxenye yamacala. Ethuswe yilesi simo esivelayo, u-Fiona McKenzie oyisishoshovu usethe Asikwazi Ukuvuma Lokhu, iqembu lomkhankaso lisebenzela ukwenza 'ucansi olubi' - noma okuthiwa 'Amathunzi angama-50'- Ukuvikela kuxoshwe ezinkantolo zaseBrithani. Ngokubambisana nelungu lePhalamende Labour Harriet Harman, iqembu lizama ukufaka isigatshana ku Umthethosivivinywa Wokuhlukumeza Ekhaya lokho kungenza ukuthi kube semthethweni ukuthi owesilisa obulale umuntu wesifazane athi uyaluvuma udlame olulethe ukufa kwakhe. Abagqugquzeli bathi ukuvuma imidlalo ethile yocansi akufani nokuvuma ukubulawa, njengoba kuboniswe icala likaMillane. Ukuzivikela 'ocansini olubi' kubuye kudumaze izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi ukuba zize ngaphambili, ngokwesaba ukuthi impilo yazo yezocansi izosetshenziselwa ukubadumaza noma ukubasola - into eseyivele yande kakhulu ohlelweni lwenkantolo.

“Imvamisa, ngeke uthole lutho ngomuntu oshonile ngaphezu kwegama lakhe nangalezi zinsolo ezinamandla” - UFiona McKenzie, Ngeke sivume Lo mkhankaso

"Lokhu kubukeka njengodlame lwendabuko kubantu besifazane olubonakala luhambisana ngokuphelele nodlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane," kusho uMcKenzie. “Kepha ngasizathu simbe ohlelweni lwezobulungiswa bobugebengu, futhi ngandlela thile kwabezindaba kanye nalapho kubikwa, kukholakala ukuthi abesifazane bathi 'yebo, ngifuna ukulimala kabi. Ngifuna ukulaliswa esibhedlela ngami. ”

“Esikhathini esiningi, ngeke uthole lutho ngomuntu oshonile ngaphezu kwegama lakhe nangezi zinsolo ezethusayo ukuthi wavuma zonke izinhlobo zocansi ngaphambi kokushona kwakhe,” kuqhubeka uMcKenzie. "Uma sibuyela emuva ngeminyaka yama-90 nowama-2000, kunamagama abesifazane asakazeke emaphephandabeni ngaphansi kwesihloko esithi 'kinky sex mum', 'mwanafunzi wasekolishi leBDSM'."

Ukubhekana nemibuzo ezungeze ukuhlangana okuyinkimbinkimbi kocansi nodlame kube yinkinga ephuthumayo, hhayi ngoba ubufakazi bukhombisa ukuthi iyabhebhetheka kakhulu abesifazane, kodwa ngoba kuyizimpawu zokudideka okwandile mayelana nokuthi abantu abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-40 benza ucansi kanjani.

Ukuthi ucansi olubi seludumile eminyakeni yamuva nje luvela njengezindaba zomuntu, nokho ipolitiki yezocansi ebangelwa ukwanda kwayo kubantu abasha ayikaziwa. Ucwaningo olwenziwe ngu Ama-Savanta ComRes we BBC Radio 5 ngesonto eledlule uveze ukuthi amaphesenti angama-38 abesifazane abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-40 abathola “ukungafuneki” ukushaya, ukujaha, noma ukugonana ngezikhathi zobulili. Amaphesenti angama-42 alaba besifazane athi bazizwa 'becindezelwe noma baphoqekile' kuwo. Ukujwayelekile kwezenzo zobudlova ezinobudlova kuvame ukusolwa ekwandisweni kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezinamandla phakathi kwezinsizwa. Kepha, ngokusho kukaMary Sharpe we Isisekelo Somvuzo - isihlokwana esikhethekile kwezocansi kanye nemfundo yezocansi - i-porn isesimweni esifanayo nakwabesifazane abafuna "izinto ezinzima ukuze bazizwe noma yini".

"Uma uneminyaka engama-25, njengowesifazane osemusha, kungenzeka ukuthi ubesebuke iminyaka eyi-10 yocansi olulukhuni," uSharpe utshela uDazed. Ukholelwa ukuthi isikhathi samanje samasiko sikhuthaza abesifazane ukuthi balinganise ngephutha inkululeko yokuya ocansini ngokweqile - iqiniso elenziwa laba limbi kakhulu lapho izinsizwa 'zithanda ukubekwa ngaphakathi ukuthi abesifazane bafuna ukuphonswa'. Iphuzu lokudideka lapha ukuthi abantu besifazane abayona nje izisulu zesiko, kodwa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi selibumbe izifiso zabo ngobuhlakani, futhi babekwa kubo ukuze bafune ubulili obuvame ukuqamba kabusha umbono ongeyona eyabo ngokuphelele futhi ubabeke engcupheni.

Impikiswano yezocansi enzima nayo yenza ukungasebenzi komphakathi we-BDSM kanye nemikhuba yayo. Abantu ababolekwe ama-aesthetics abo futhi abizwa ngokuthi 'isimo esiphambukayo' ngaphandle kokuthatha imithetho nemihlahlandlela ezungeze imvume nokuphepha umphakathi oboshelwe kukho. Ukulethwa ekusakazweni yi ( Amathunzi angama-50 Umphumela uye wakhuthaza kuphela ukusetshenziswa kabi nokuqanjwa ngamanga kwesiko le-BDSM nomphakathi, okugcina ngokubusa kakhulu - imvume isezingeni lesiko le-kink, futhi uma ukukwenza ngokuphepha nangokuphepha, ungangena noma uphume nganoma yisiphi isikhathi .

"Kusenzima nokusho ukuthi le ndondo yokuhlukumeza ngokocansi kubantu besifazane ibuye yavikeleka kanjani futhi ngathi, okwamanje, kepha ngenkathi sibheka lokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi kube nezokuphepha ezikhona kuwo womabili amazinga ezomthetho namasiko"

Okunye ukucatshangelwa ukuthi udlame lwabathandanayo luhlobana kanjani 'nenselelo' yobudoda. Ukuthi amadoda azame ukuthola izindlela eziningi kakhulu zokugomela ukubusa namandla ngesikhathi sobunzima obuhlanganayo kungenzeka ukuthi kulula kakhulu ukuphetha, futhi abunabo ubufakazi bangempela (okwamanje). Kepha kufanelekile ukubhekisisa ukuthi ngabe amadoda 'aphokophela emuva' ekusithekeni kwekamelo lokulala futhi akude ngamehlo omphakathi. Iposi-metoo umzuzu uphonse ubulili besilisa esimweni sokudideka: amanye amadoda ngokuzumayo athole indlela yawo yokuziphatha yangaphambili yobulili ukuze manje ichazwe njengengamukeleki; abanye bazizwa becasukile ngezinguquko eziqhubekele phambili ngamandla amakhulu nesivinini ngenxa yomfutho ngemuva kokunyakaza.

UConor Creighton, ongumlobi nomholi wokuzindla osephendulele ukunakekela imihlangano yokucobelela ingqondo nobuntu, ukholelwa ukuthi kukhona "ukudideka okuningi mayelana nobudlelwano" phakathi kwamadoda okwamanje, kodwa hhayi ukuthukuthela. Uthi: “Angicabangi ukuthi amadoda athukuthele, kepha intukuthelo yiyona kuphela ekhuthaza amadoda ukuba ahlanganyele. "Ngakho-ke uma umuntu ecindezelekile, edabukile, noma edidekile kuvela intukuthelo, ngoba yileyo ndlela esihlangana ngayo nabantu."

Kusenzima nokusho ukuthi yini le ndondo yokuhlukumeza ngokocansi kubantu besifazane nokuthi iye yavikeleka kanjani ngathi nangomzuzu wamanje, kepha ngenkathi sibheka lokho, kubalulekile ukuthi izivikelelo zibekwe emazingeni omthetho nakwezamasiko. Ngasohlangothini olungokomthetho, lokhu kufakwa ngukuthandwa komkhankaso we-We Can't Consent To This and their mission to that a clause added to the Domestic Abuse Bill ozoqinisekisa ukuthi umlando wokuya ocansini wowesifazane oshonile awunakusetshenziswa ngaye umsolwa wakhe. Ezingeni lamasiko, kunzima ukwazi ukuthi uzoqala kuphi. Ukwamukela ukuthi udlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane luzibonakalisa ngezindlela ezicashile neziyimfihlo luyadingeka - futhi luyadingeka ngokushesha mhlawumbe - njengoba kuphela lapho singazama ukuxazulula inkinga ekhulayo futhi kwesinye isikhathi lapho izintshisekelo zabesifazane kanye nokuphoqelela ngezindlela ezeqile zocansi kubeka khona bazibeka engcupheni, futhi ishiya isiko lethu lingasebenzi.

Ishicilelwe online nge-6th ngo-December 2019

Ummeli uMary Sharpe uxoxa ngezithombe ezingcolile nezobugebengu kuma-The Nine

Ummeli UMary Sharpe uvele izolo ebusuku ku- I-BBC's The Nine ukuxoxa ngokwejwayelekile kwezithombe zocansi ezinobudlova, obekukhona kugcizelelwe kulandela ukugwetshwa komuntu ngecala lokubulala UGrace Millane nyakenye ngoNovemba.

Unksz Millane - oyisikhwama semuva saseBrithani esineminyaka engu-21 - wabulawa eNew Zealand ngenkathi bethandana nale ndoda.

Nksz Sharpe, omusa wakhe I-Foundation Foundation yenza ucwaningo kule ndawo lufinyeleleke emphakathini, luxoxa ngale ndaba kanye nomthetho wokuqinisekiswa kweminyaka obekwe ngumthetho Uhulumeni wase-UK.

Ucingo lwe-porn lushayela intsha ekwelashweni ngokobulili

esihlokweni ngoMark Howarth kanye U-Andrew Gregory ngoMgqibelo ngo-5 Okthoba 2019

Inani lentsha efuna usizo selikhuphukile. Abeluleki basola amavidiyo 'wezocansi oluphelele' abonwa yizingane ezineminyaka eyisikhombisa

Isibalo sentsha efuna ukwelashwa kwezocansi ku-NHS seqe kakhulu eminyakeni emibili, ngokusho kwezibalo ezisemthethweni.

Ochwepheshe basola ukugcwala kwesibalo sokwanda kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuma-Smartphones abo nakwezokuxhumana nabantu, ngesisho esisodwa izingane lindela ukuthi ucansi lube “oluphelele ngaso sonke isikhathi”.

Sekukonke, izingane ezingama-4,600 kanye nabantu abasha abaneminyaka engu-19 noma ngaphansi badinga ukwelashwa kobungqingili ngo-2017-18 nango-2018-19. Esikhathini esiyiminyaka emibili eyedlule, bekudluliselwa kwabangu-1,400.

Sekukonke, abasebasha bakha isiguli esisodwa kweziyishumi esithola ukwelulekwa ngokocansi, uma siqhathaniswa nesisodwa kwabangu-1 eminyakeni emibili edlule, kubike i-NHS Digital.

UMuriel O'Driscoll, umeluleki nodokotela wobungqingili osebenzise abantu abasha, uthe: “Ngezingane, kwesinye isikhathi, naphezu kokutholakala kwemfundo yocansi, imvamisa azenzi bazi ukuthi benzani noma balindele ukuthi ucansi luphelele ngaso sonke isikhathi.

“Abazi ukuthi benzani ngoba basekela ulwazi abanalo kumafilimu wezithombe zocansi noma ama-video ku-Facebook nakuyo yonke eminye imidiya. Akukona okungokoqobo - iqiniso aliphelele. Kwesinye isikhathi ucansi luyasebenza; kwesinye isikhathi akukwenzi.

“Balindele ukuthi abantu bazokwazi ukuba nama-orgasms ngokuqhafaza. Futhi-ke, uma osemusha eye waba nokubi kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kwezocansi, lokho kuyadlala engqondweni yabo. ”

U-O'Driscoll, osebenzele izikhungo zeNHS neBrook Advisory Center futhi manje osebenzela ngasese eMerseyside, uphinde wathi kwesinye isikhathi abafana namantombazane bakhathazekile ngokuthi izitho zabo zangasese azibukeki noma zilingana nalabo ababone online.

Izingane zikhubeka nezithombe ezingcolile zobuchopho ezikwi-inthanethi zisukela eminyakeni eyisikhombisa, kusho umbiko owedlule. Inhlolokhono, evela eBrithani Board of Film Classization, iphakamise ukuthi abazali abathathu kwabathathu babona sengathi ingane yabo ibungeke ibone i-porn online, kodwa abangaphezu kwengxenye benze lokho. Intsha ichaze ukuzizwa "bedidekile" ngalokho ababekubonile.

UMary Sharpe, oyisikhulu esiphezulu senhlangano ebhekele ubudlelwano be-Reward Foundation, uthe: “Ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kobuchwepheshe kwakha intsha ekhathazayo, ecindezelekile nezinezinkinga zobungqingili. Kusukela kwaqala ibhendi ebanzi kakhulu ngo-2006, ukwanda kwezinkinga zempilo yengqondo sekukhuphuke kakhulu kubantu abasha. Ngabe zixhunyiwe?

"Izimboni ze-inthanethi nezama-porn zisebenza ngokuzikhandla ukukuphika lokho, kepha sicabanga ukuthi zixhumekile ngoba izimpawu zivame ukucaca uma abantu bedlula kwidijithali evumela ubuchopho babo ukuthi babuyiselwe enjabulweni yansuku zonke."

Eminyakeni emibili eyedlule, inani labantu bayo yonke iminyaka abafuna usizo lenyuka laya ku-47,300, kuthi abangama-10% babo babeyintsha.

UClaire Murdoch, umqondisi kazwelonke wezempilo yezengqondo e-NHS England, uthe: "Okucacayo kakhulu isidingo sokuthi ezinye izingxenye zomphakathi ziqale ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngezenzo zazo, zinikeze umsebenzi ofanele wokunakekela futhi ziqede ukulimaza i-inthanethi - ngakho-ke i-NHS ayishiywanga phansi ukuze ithathe izingcezu. ”

UMary Sharpe ucashunwe kule ndatshana eqinile ngokuziphatha komkhakha wezithombe zocansi. ISEXWAYISO: le nto iqukethe izinto abanye abafundi abangase bazithole zikhathazekile. Ishicilelwe i-27 Septhemba 2019.


Imboni edabukisayo ihlanjululwa kanjani

Imboni edabukisayo ihlanjululwa kanjani

Imikhandlu eminingi ikhiqize umhlahlandlela wezocansi nobudlelwano basolwa obhekiswe ezinganeni nakubantu abasha, ohlulekayo ukudonsela ukunaka kokulimala kwezithombe zocansi. UJO BARTOSCH uyabika

UJESICA REDDING ushone ngeledlule; i-Los Angeles County Coroner iqinisekisile ukuthi yayineminyaka engu-40.

Wenza izinto zobulili ezingcolile ngaphansi kwegama uJessica Jaymes. Ukufa kwakhe ngaphambi kwesikhathi akuyona into eyindida kulabo abaziwa ngokuthi “imboni yezokuzijabulisa yabantu abadala.”

Ifilimu lokuqala elibizwa ngokuthi i-Reddingic film Redding elenziwa kulo lalingu-Little Girl Lost, lapho ayese-16.

Namuhla, njengoba isidumbu sikaJessica Redding silindele ukungcwatshwa kwesidumbu eLos Angeles, okungenani iwebhusayithi eyodwa yomkhandlu lapha eBrithani itshela izingane ezingaphansi kukaRedding ngenkathi enza ifilimu lakhe lokuqala ukuthi badinga ukuthatha isikhathi sokuqashwa kwabo mayelana izithombe zocansi.

I-Warwickhire County Council's “Zihloniphe” isiqondisi, evunywa yiWorld Health Warwickhire, isizakala ukusiza ukufeza lokho ekuchazayo njengezinganekwane ngezithombe zocansi.

IWarwickhire ungomunye nje wemikhandlu eminingi okhiqize ukuqondiswa kocansi nobudlelwano obuhloselwe izingane, intsha nentsha.

Abanye abafundi bangahle bacabange ukuthi inkinga yezingane ezibukela izithombe zocansi ukuthi ihlanekezela ukuqonda kwazo ngocansi, ngokusobala kuholela ebhubhaneni labafana elilingisa lokho abakubonile nokuhlukumeza amantombazane ezikoleni ngokocansi (ngokujabulisayo Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi “kontanga” ezikoleni kunyuke ngamaphesenti ama-521 eWarwickhire phakathi kwe2013-16).

Abanye bangase basho lokhu ukukhuphuka kwama-labiaplasties noma I-40 iphesenti labesifazane abasebasha ababika ukuthi bacindezelwa ukuba baye ocansini, njengezinkomba zokuthi ezocansi zinomthelela emphakathini.

Kokubili lokho kuzobe kungalungile, ngokweseluleko se-Honect Yourself, esisho ngokuzethemba ukuthi enye yezinkinga ezinkulu zentsha ebukela i-porn ukuthi ibonwa njengento okungafanele ngabe bayayenza. ”

Emzamweni wabo wokuzwela wokubonakala ngathi “wezingane eziphansi,” labo abangaphansi kwalezo ziqondiso bazikhohlisa njengabenzi bokubi abangafanele.

Abagxeki abanesifiso sokuphakamisa ukubuka i- “Lesbian Anal Trainingers 2,” “All Anal 3” noma “Slave for a Night” (zonke izihloko ezithengiswa kahle kakhulu ngokukaJessica Redding osekushiwo ngenhla) angeke zikwenze kube lula ukuqonda kwengane ukubukeka kobudlelwano obunempilo njengo, kukhona ngokungaphandle kwe-touch-pearl-clutching prlies okungenzeka ukuthi zidinga ukubona okuhle.

Eqinisweni, isizathu esenza ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bahlukunyezwe kangaka ngokutholakala kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ukuthi liye labamba isizukulwane se-iPhone ilungelo lomqondo oyiqiniso wobulili.

Akukho lutho olungahambi kahle ngokuqinisekisa intsha ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu empeleni ngeke kubenze bangaboni, futhi empeleni kungabasiza ukuba bazizwe bekhululekile emizimbeni yabo.

Kepha nini intombazane eneminyaka engu-12 ibhalele ukuthi Zihloniphele, ukhathazekile ngokuthi ubengumlutha wezithombe zocansi futhi edalula ukuthi ububukele "uhhafu wobusuku," impendulo bekungamtsheli ukuthi izithombe zocansi zilimaza futhi kwakungekhona ukumqinisekisa ukuthi ubulili nokuhlukumezeka okuvezwa akuyona into abeyenza ungalindela njengomuntu okhulile.

Eqinisweni, Hlonipha Uchitha umbono wokuthi izithombe ezingcolile ziyimilutha noma zilimaza nganoma iyiphi indlela.

Ngokusho kukaMary Sharp we-Reward Foundation, isisa semfundo esigxile othandweni, kwezocansi naku-inthanethi, lokhu akulona iqiniso.

Engxoxweni eyenziwe ekuqaleni konyaka kulo Mqaphi, wachaza: “I-porn engaphezulu iyashintsha indlela izingane ezivuswa ngayo ocansini… lapho isengozini enkulu yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo nemilutha yezengqondo. Imilutha eminingi nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuqala ebusheni. ”

Imiphumela yalokhu ingabonakala kahle ku- amazinga wokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile, ekhule kusuka kumaphesenti angu-2-3 alinganiselwa ngamadoda angaphansi kwe-35 ku-2002 kuya cishe kumaphesenti angama-30 selokhu kwaqala ukusakazwa kwamahhala, izincazelo zocansi eziphezulu.

Kwenye indawo esizeni “Imibuzo yobudlelwano” icela abasebenzisi ukuthi bakhethe ohlwini lwezimpendulo ezingaba khona uma bebamba umlingani wabo abukela izithombe zocansi.

Ngamaqiniso siyazi ukuthi "umlingani" obukela izithombe zocansi kungenzeka ukuthi ungowesilisa, kepha zihloniphe ngenhlonipho usikhumbuza “bobabili abafana namantombazane abukela i-porn.”

Noma ngabe ukhetha inketho ethi "iyadelela" noma "iyashisa", impendulo iwukubeka noma yikuphi ukungathandeki komuntu siqu ngoba wonke umuntu "uthanda imfumbe."

Ukucaca, ukuba “negcokama” akuyona inkinga, umthelela obuqandayo wokusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngumlingani wakho ukuzithemba komuntu.

Kude ukuhlanganisa abantu eduze, ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zocansi kuyinto isici esiyisihluthulelo sokuqhekeka kobuhlobo.

Ngokuvakashela izingosi zezithombe zocansi ezinqamula lezo zeNetflix, i-Amazon ne-Twitter zihlanganisiwe, imboni yezocansi ngokungangabazeki izophila ngaphandle kosizo lobudlelwano bomphakathi kusukela ekuvukeni eWarwickshire.

Yize kunjalo, umhlahlandlela we-Honuff Your uqobo wenza umsebenzi ofanele wobudlelwano nomphakathi, uthi: "Imboni yezocansi ingenye yezimbalwa lapho abesifazane benza imali eningi kunabesilisa."

Kubantu abambalwa okuncane lokhu kuyiqiniso. Thatha uSheena Shaw, ngokwesibonelo. Uzenzele igama ngokuthi “indlovukazi ye-rosebudding. "

I-Rosebudding yigama elisetshenziswa embonini yezithombe zocansi ukuthola i-anal prolapse, lapho i-rectum iphoqelelwa ukuphuma kukho.

Lokhu kubonakala kuyinto enhle, njengoba uShaw ephawula kahle: "Isiko lisifundisa ukuthi sithande ini nokuthi yini ongakuthandi."

Abesifazane abenze lobu bungozi obuqandayo, izinkinga ezinzima zamathumbu nokuvuza komzimba.

Lapho umagazini uVice ubuza uShaw ngalokho angakwenza uma alimala, uphendule wathi: “Akekho oke akhulume ngalokho. Bakwenza usayine ngaphambi kokuba wenze lezi zigcawu. Ngeke uze uzothola imali yabasebenzi. ”

Mhlawumbe banikezwe ngokungamangalisi izimfuno ezingokwenyama zobucansi banamuhla, labo abashiya imboni babika lokho izidakamizwa, ukuhlukunyezwa kanye nokuphoqwa kusethi kukhona ukushayisana; abesifazane abaningi bagcina phakathi kwezinyanga ezintathu kuya kwe-18 ngaphambi kokuhamba.

Masibe sethembekile, akukho lutho olunika amandla ukuthi i-rectum yakho ikhiphe i-anus yakho ngenkathi ibizwa ngokuthi “isifebe,” ikhafule futhi iminyaniswe kwikhamera.

Ngaphandle kwalezi zinto ezingokoqobo ezinobudlova iwebhusayithi ye-Respect Your ngokwakho ithi "izifundo zibonisa ukuthi eqinisweni izinkanyezi zabesifazane abazethembayo futhi banelisekile ngemisebenzi ukwedlula inani eliphakathi kwabantu." Lezi zifundo azithenjiswa.

Emphakathini ofakwe ezingcolile, kudingeka sibhekane namaqiniso futhi silungiselele izingane lokho ezingakubona ku-inthanethi futhi, ngokulunga, ezinye zeziqondiso ezithi Hlonipha Wena zinomusa futhi ziyacabanga.

Kepha ukwenqatshwa kwemboni edabukisayo eyakhelwe phezu kosizi lwabesifazane namantombazane akunakuthethelelwa.

Ekuthunyelweni kwaso ukuze kubonakale kufanelekile, kugxile ebusheni futhi kubuye kabusha, i-Warwickshire County Council ibeka engcupheni isizukulwane ukucabanga ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa okuvezwa kuzithombe zobulili ezingcolile akuyona into evamile, kepha kuyinto efiselekayo.

UJo Bartosch ungumqondisi we-Click Off, umkhankaso wokuqeda isidingo sezithombe zocansi. Sicela uvakashele iwebhusayithi yayo futhi ucabangele ukunikela www.vwwwb.org.

UMary Sharpe ucashunwe kabanzi kulolu chungechunge nguPeter Diamond, eshicilelwe ngo-19 April 2019.

IScottish Catholic Observer

"I-porn block" ezayo e-UK iyamukelwa ngabamemezeli, kepha ukukhathazeka kwenkulumo okukhululekile kubonakala yiSonto.

AmaKatolika akwamukele ukufika kwesikhathi esizayo kwizithombe zobulili ezingcolile e-UK, okumele kusetshenziswe ezinyangeni ezizayo, futhi iSonto lingakwazi ukuhola ekubhekaneni nokulimala kokulutha kabi kocansi.

Kwamenyezelwa kuleli sonto ukuthi ukuqinisekiswa kweminyaka yezingosi zobulili ezingcolile kuzothathwa ngoJulayi 15.

Uma usungulwe, abantu abadala bazofanela ukufakazela ukuthi bangaphezu kwe-18 ngokubhalisa imininingwane yabo noma ukuthenga i-voucher, ukuze bathole izithombe ezingcolile.

Inkulumo yamahhala

AmaKatolika abasiza ukulwa nokulutha nokulwela iSonto eScotland asemukele ukuhamba, nakuba beqaphele ukuthi inkululeko yokukhuluma kufanele ivikelwe ekucabangeni kukahulumeni.

UMat Fradd ungumbhali wamaKatolika nesiphakamiso endabeni yezingcolile e-US.

Usanda kuvula uhlelo olusha lwe-21 lwe-Strive21 ukuletha abantu ebuhlungu bokulutha kocansi.

"Ngiyajabula ngokuvinjelwa kwe-porn e-UK," esho. "Ngeke kuvimbe abantu abasha abazama ukufinyelela kuma-porn kodwa kodwa sibonga manje sibona lolu hlobo lokuvimbela.

"ISonto linendima okufanele liyilwe empini yokulwa nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Njengoba iCatechism yamaKatolika ithi, 'sidalwe ngomfanekiso nofana noNkulunkulu,' futhi ngenxa yalokhu kushintsha indlela esicabanga ngayo ngabantu. Ukufundisa kweSonto ngalesi sihloko ukuthi i-porn iyasigqilaza-siyabizwa ukuba ibe yinkosi yezifiso zethu. "

Ukulimala okungaziwa

UMnu. Fradd wanezela: "Ukusetshenziswa kobulili kuye kwadutshulwa eminyakeni yamuva futhi izingane eziningi ezineminyaka engu-8-12 zibuka izithombe ezingcolile futhi ziyizinkukhu zezinyane zezinyamazane okuthize ngeke sizikwazi ngokugcwele ukuthi ziyingozi kanjani kuze kube yiminyaka engu-50 phansi.

"Ngicabanga ukuthi yinto ephakathi neminyaka ye-50 abantu bazosithuthumela ngokukhungatheka bethi, 'ungakwenza kanjani lokhu, ungasenza kanjani ukuthi sibukele lezi zinto.'

"Kuyinto inhlekelele ekulindeleke ukuthi kwenzeke kodwa abantu abathokozelayo baqala ukulalela futhi bavuke ezinyantwini zezingane ezibuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile."

I-Strive21 iqalise e-US amasonto amabili edlule futhi isivele inabantu abangaphezulu kuka-1,000 ababhalisela ohlelweni lokulutha izidakamizwa, futhi i-seminary yamaKatolika ibonise isithakazelo ekusebenziseni ithuluzi.

Ukulimala komlutha

Umpristi waseScotland ohilelekile enkonzweni yokuphulukisa uye wamukela nanoma yikuphi ukuvinjelwa okungasiza ekunqobeni ukulutha kocansi.

I-Canon William Fraser, umpristi waseParish of The Visitation Church eTaynuilt, wathi: "Ngokudabukisayo ngibonile ukulimala komsebenzi wami enkonzweni yokuphulukisa.

"Ngokuvamile ukubheja kocansi kuyimkhuba yomuntu ongeyena nje owenza izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kodwa njengendlela yokusabela 'kokulimaza.' Lokhu kufana nanoma yikuphi uhlobo lokulutha ukubheja noma ngabe kuyiphuzo noma izidakamizwa kaningi kunokuba kungenjalo uma ingxenye 'ebuhlungu' iphulukiswa ngakho kuba lula ukubhekana 'nomkhuba.' "

I-Canon Fraser yanezela ukuthi ukuze 'ususe' othile osuka ekulonyeni kocansi kungathatha iseshini kodwa 'ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu' kungathatha izinyanga eziningana noma ngisho neminyaka ukubhekana nayo.

"Kumele sikhumbule njalo ukuthi amandla akhona ngaphakathi kwethu ngoJesu Kristu mkhulu kunanoma yimaphi amandla emhlabeni," kusho uCanon Fraser, enezela ukuthi 'uNkulunkulu uzosikhulula njengoba nje enqoba zonke izono esiphambanweni. '

Izibalo

I-Porn iyinhlangano yomhlaba wonke we-£ 75 billion. Ucwaningo lwe-2016 olwanyatheliswa e-Eastern Economic Journal lwembula ukuthi abantu ababuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngokuvamile abakwazi ukushada kunabo abangenalo.

UMary Sharpe uyisikhulu esiphezulu ku-The Reward Foundation, isenzo sezemfundo esiseScotland esibheka isayensi ngemuva kobulili nothando.

UNksz Sharpe uthe: "Sithanda ngokuphelele umthetho ongenayo. Abazali bavame ukucabanga ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zifana nokuthi kwakuneminyaka eyi-20 edlule, kodwa manje sekubi nakakhulu. Kushayela okuningi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi.

"Kunomthelela omkhulu ebuchosheni babantu, ikakhulukazi abantu abasha abahlonishwayo ukuba bagxile ezintweni."

Ukugunyazwa kwePapa

I-Pope ivume ukusizwa kukaNksz Sharpe, futhi isebenza nezikole zamaKatolika ukuthuthukisa izinhlelo zesifundo zabafundisi.

"Sicabanga ukuthi umthetho omusha ubaluleke kakhulu. Ngeke uphulukise inkinga kodwa imfundo ibalulekile ezikoleni nasemakhaya, "esho.

"Sakha futhi sithuthukisa izinhlelo zokufunda ezikoleni eScotland, kuhlanganise namaKatolika, lapho sizokwenza khona ngokuvumelana nezimfundiso zeSonto nezinsiza zikaNkulunkulu zothando.

"Amasonto namaPhalamende angadlala indima enkulu ekulwa nalolu daba. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa amaKatolika kulokhu futhi iSonto alikwazi ukuthandaza nje ngaleyo ndlela lizophela-kumele lilalele futhi lenze ngokukholwa okuhle futhi uma lenza kanjalo lingabangela inkinga. "

Ukuxhobisa ngobupristi

UMary wanezela ukuthi abapristi bangaphinde 'babe namandla' okukhuluma ngale nkinga noma banikele abantu iseluleko lapho bangaya khona usizo.

Abamemezeli benkululeko yokukhulumisana baye bakhulisa ukukhathazeka ukuthi umthetho omusha uzobona ukuphoqa ngaphansi kwenkulumo yamahhala. Ukuvinjelwa kocansi kuyingxenye yemizamo eminingi kahulumeni yokuvimbela lokho okukubheka njengenkulumo enenzondo ku-intanethi.

Umkhulumeli weSonto LamaKatolika eScotland uthi: "Kubalulekile ukuthi noma yimuphi umthetho omusha othi ukubhekana 'nokulimaza okuku-intanethi' kanye 'nezinto ezihlaselayo' uphakamisa ilungelo eliyisisekelo senkululeko yokukhuluma, ukucabanga, unembeza nenkolo evumela ukushintshwa okunamandla kokubukwa nokuphikisana, ngaphandle kokwesaba noma ukuthanda.

"Ukuvikela ukuphepha kwezingane kanye namaqembu asengozini kubaluleke kakhulu. Uma kungenakho incazelo enenjongo 'yokulimaza' kodwa kunzima ukubona ukuthi lokhu kungenziwa kanjani. "

"Ukuvumela umlawuli ozimele ukuba anqume ukuthi okuqukethwe noma yini kungabungozi futhi kungavimbela, kungase kuholele ekunqumeni izinkolelo zenkolo."

SCES

Umzimba womzali waseCroatia waseScotland uye wamukela lesi sikhungo se-porn.

UJo Soares, usihlalo weqembu labazali bakaScottish Catholic Education Service, wathi: "Umthetho omusha kufanele wenze kube nzima nakakhulu ukuba izingane zifinyelele izinto ezingcolile zobulili kwi-intanethi noma ngephutha.

"Kubalulekile ukuthi sikwazi ukuvimbela okuqukethwe kocansi ukuze izingane zethu zingabi nemicabango engaphephile yokuziphatha ngokocansi nemvume noma imibono engabonakali ebuhlotsheni nemifanekiso yomzimba.

"Ukuvinjelwa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ku-intanethi kubantu abadala kuzokukwenza kube nzima ukuqondisa izingane zethu ekufundiseni izinto ezifundisayo ngokuvumelana nenkolelo yethu ngesithunzi sabo bonke abantu."

I-Viagra njengesidakamizwa sokuphila yabona uMary Sharpe ecashunwe kule ndaba yendlela yokuphila yeHuffpost evela ku-3 Ephreli 2019.

'Bayithatha Ngaphambi Kokuya Eklabhu': Kungani I-Viagra Isetshenziswa Yi-New Generation

Akusona nje isidakamizwa samadoda amadala, i-Viagra isasetshenziswa ukuzijabulisa ngabafana abasezingeni eliphakeme. Ngu

Bekungokwesithathu u-Alex * ezama ukufaka ikhondomu wehluleka. Yize evukile futhi azi ukuthi mhlawumbe leli kwakuyithuba lakhe lokuya ocansini nowesifazane ahlangana naye ekuqaleni kusihlwa, akakwazanga ukuhlala eqondile. Akunandaba ukuthi ubuchopho bakhe babufuna kangakanani ukuya ocansini, umzimba wakhe wawungahambelani.

Ekugcineni wasemukela lesi simo, waxolisa osukwini lwakhe "lokukhathazeka ngokusebenza" - okwenziwa kubi ngokudla utshwala ne-cocaine - futhi wafunga ukuthi ngeke akwenze lokho kuphinde kwenzeke. Ngosuku olulandelayo waya kumakhemisi futhi wathenga iphakethe lamathebhulethi e-sNenXil sildenafil, elaziwa kakhulu njengeViagra.

U-Alex, oleminyaka ephakathi kwamashumi amabili, akafanelani nohlobo lomsebenzisi we-Viagra: umphakathi usabona iphilisi elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka njengelifaniswa namanye amadoda amadala ashadile, okungenzeka kube nokugula nokuhlupheka okuhambisana nokuguga noma ukugula okuhlobene nokugula. Kepha icala lika-Alex, nesinqumo sakhe sokusebenzisa i-viagra ukubhekana nale nkinga, kwehlukile kakhulu.

Yizinyanga ze-12 selokhu iViagra itholakala e-UK ngaphandle kadokotela. Osokhemisi banquma ukuthi bangawuthengisela amadoda yini lo muthi, owaziwa ngegama elithi 'Viagra Connect' futhi owenziwe ngumenzi uPfizer, ngokuya ngempilo yabo nokuthi imuphi omunye umuthi abangabaphuza. Inhloso yokuqala ngenkathi kukhula ukufinyeleleka komuthi ku-2018, bekuwukulwa nenani amaphilisi wokuqamba amanga we-erectile kuthengiswa ngokungekho emthethweni ku-inthanethi. Kepha lesi sinqumo sibe nomphumela mhlawumbe ongalindelekile wokwethula umuthi engxenyeni entsha yemakethe.

UMurray Blacket, udokotela obhekelele ezocansi enyakatho neLondon, uthi ubona izinsizwa eziningi zithatha i-Viagra njenge "nqubomgomo yomshuwalense" noma "ye-booster shot" egumbini lokulala. Imvamisa lokhu kuzoba ngaphambi kokuba baphume ubusuku bonke.

“Sikhuluma nge-LGBT yesehlakalo se-chemsex kodwa endaweni yesigameko kukhona okufana nezimpelasonto ezilahlekile lapho uhlangana nomuntu, thatha umthwalo we-cocaine neViagra, wehle umgodi wonogwaja, uphume ngoMsombuluko, ”kusho uBlacket.

Ngasekuqaleni kuka-Agasti 2017, izinyanga eziyisishiyagalombili ngaphambi kokuba zithengiswe emigwaqweni ephezulu, odokotela e-UK bebebika umkhuba okhulayo wezinsizwa ezithenga lesi sidakamizwa ngokungaziwa kwi-intanethi ngenhloso yokuthuthukisa ukusebenza kocansi noma, njengo-Alex, ukulwa nokusetshenziswa kwezinye izidakamizwa zokuzijabulisa ezenza kube nzima kakhulu ukugcina indalo.

Abantu e-UK kungenzeka kakhulu kunalapho kwenye indawo eYurophu, eMelika, e-Australia noma eCanada, ukuhlanganisa ubulili nezidakamizwa, ngokusho kwe-2019 Global Drug Survey, kungakhathalekile ubulili noma ukuthambekela kwezocansi. Izinto ezisetshenziswa kakhulu kwakungu utshwala, insangu, i-MDMA ne-cocaine - konke lokhu kungavimba ukusebenza kocansi uma kuthathwe ngemithamo ephezulu.

I-Viagra isebenza ngokuqinisekisa ukuhamba kwegazi okwanele ngaphakathi kwepenisi ukuze ihlale iqonde. Akunamphumela osheshayo futhi isebenza kuphela lapho indoda ivuswa ocansini. Ngakho-ke awuhambi uzungeze iklabhu yasebusuku nge-erection amahora amaningi ekugcineni, kodwa uzokwazi ukuncika kuyo uma uthola inhlanhla ekugcineni kobusuku.

UBlacket uthi iningi lezinsizwa ezithatha lona zingabaqeqeshiwe - othisha, abameli, abaqeqeshi bezabantu. I-Viagra ayibizi kangako njengoba yayikade injalo, kodwa iyaqhubeka nokuthenga ngo- $ 19.99 ngephakethe lamathebhulethi amane noma i- $ 34.99 ngamasishiyagalombili. Akushibhile ukuthi yini, ngempumelelo, 'okungenzeka'.

“Abesilisa abasebasha baya ngokuya bengazethembi ngamakhono abo kwezocansi,” kusho uBlacket. "Lababantu bathatha iViagra njengendlela ekhulisa ukuzethemba. Akukona ukuthi ube nobuhlobo bobulili obukhulu - kumayelana nokukwazi ukwenza ucansi olujwayelekile.

Lokhu kwehla ukuzithemba ixhumeka kaningi ngokunyuka kwesibalo sabantu ababuka njalo izithombe zocansi online. Ucwaningo lwakamuva olutholwe phakathi kwe-14% ne-35% yezinsizwa zithi bathola ukusebenza kwe-erectile uma kuqhathaniswa ne-2-3% ngaphambi kwe-2008. UMary Sharpe we Isisekelo Somvuzo, isisa semfundo esigxile othandweni, kwezocansi naku-inthanethi utshele i-Guardian: "Kusukela i-2008, lapho ukusakazwa kwamahhala, i-porn encazelo ye-porn itholakala kalula, ikhule ngokuqinile."

Ukushintshwa kwezindawo zokuqomisana nazo kuneqhaza okufanele lidlale, "kusho uBlacket, ngokukhula kwezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuqomisana futhi nokugxila ekuzibandakanyeni ngokocansi okungajwayelekile okusho ukuthi abantu kufanele bahehe ngocansi. Uthi: “Uma kungakuhambeli kahle abantu bangadlulela phambili bahlangane nomunye umuntu,” kusho yena. "Usiko lobusuku obubodwa luyinto eyenzekayo kulokhu. Unethuba linye. "

Akukhona nje ukuthi kunokucindezela okuningi kokuhlala ulungele ukuya ocansini, kepha iningi lokuzibandakanya ocansini lakhiwa ubukhona botshwala nezinye izidakamizwa ezivimbela ukusebenza. “Amadoda la ajwayele ukuya ocansini ngemuva kweziphuzo, uma kungenazo nezidakamizwa. Ukuthatha i-Viagra kubonakala kuhlobene nomqondo wokuthi 'Ngingaba nezimpawu ezimbalwa ezimbalwa futhi ngisazokwazi ukukwenza'. ”

Futhi lowo mcabango useya ngokuya ugcwala kakhulu, njengoba i-Viagra iba namandla ngokwamasiko ajwayelekile, kusho uBlacket. “Manje sekunezikhangiso ezindaweni ezingaphansi komhlaba nangasohlangothini lwamabhasi eViagra [elethwe] eVespa. Lezi zinkampani zibone ushintsho emakethe futhi zenza imali ngalo. ”

Kubukeka sengathi ukuba nenkampani enezitayela zeDeliveroo kulethe iViagra emnyango wakho kudlale indima enkulu ekwenzeni lo muthi uthandeke kubantu abasha. Esikhundleni sokuthile okudingeka ukuntshontsha kwikhabethe lokugezela likababa wakho, ungaku-oda ngendlela obuyokwenza ngayo ipitsa. Umthelela walokhu kuguquka kwesiko kudale ukuthi iBlacket ibone idlanzana lamadoda lingenakukhathazeka ngokusebenza, elacabanga ukuthi ukuthatha iViagra kuzobenza babe "nzima" futhi nokwenza ucansi kujabulise.

UBlacket ukhathazekile ukuthi abanye balabo abasebenzisa ukusebenzisa i-Viagra baziphuzisa imithamo ephakeme kunaleyo abezoyincoma. Abaningi baphuza amaphilisi we-100mg, kuyilapho i-NHS incoma umthamo we-50mg kanye ngosuku. "Abantu abazi ngempela ukuthi imithamo isho ukuthini - basebenzisa umbono we-vithamini wokuthatha nje okuningi." Uyachaza. "

Ukuthatha i-sildenafil ngokweqile kungadala imiphumela emibi engemuva kwekhanda, isiyezi, ukuqunjelwa, impumulo evinjiwe nombono oshintshiwe. Uthi: “Ngike ngababuza abanye babo ukuthi bazizwa kanjani ngakusasa futhi bathi abenzanga kahle,” kusho yena. “Abambalwa babo beze kimi babuze ukuthi 'Ingabe kufanele ngikhathazeke? Ngingakwenza kuze kube nini lokhu? ”

Kuyamkhathaza ukuthi abantu basebenzisa la amaphilisi ukubeka udaka ezindabeni ezinkulu, ezijulile ezivimba impilo yabo yezocansi. “Babeka usizo lwebhendi phezu kwenkinga ngeViagra. Lokhu kumele kube ukulungiswa kwesikhashana. ”

Izingcaphuno ezivela kuMary Sharpe emlandweni we-March 11 ku-The Guardian zivele kule ngqangi kwiwebhusayithi yamaKatolika LifeSiteNews. Lesi sihloko sicaphuna imithombo esiyihlonipha kuhlanganise neurosurgeon uDkt Donald Hilton kanye ne-yourbrainonporn.com.

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March 29, 2019, (LifeSiteNews) - Amadoda amasha athwalwa amandla abo okuba nobuhlobo bobulili obuvamile nabesifazane njengokubuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile ukuvuselela ubuchopho babo, behluleka ukwenza ubulili.

Ngomqondo othile, abesilisa abaseneminyaka eyishumi nambili ngokusebenzisa ama-30s aboshwa ngokumelene nobulili, ngokusondelana, ngokumelene nokuzala, ngokumelene nokuveza uthando, ngokumelene nomshado, ngokumelene nenjabulo.

Futhi lelo gciwane lenziwa mahhala nge-intanethi.

"Kuze kube yi-2002, izibalo zamadoda ngaphansi kwe-40 ne-ED (i-erectile dysfunction) zazungeze amaphesenti angu-2-3," uMary Sharpe we- Isisekelo Somvuzo utshele The Guardian. "Kusuka ku-2008, lapho ukusakaza okukhululekile, izithombe ezingcolile ze-porn-definition ezitholakala kalula, kuye kwanda kancane."

"(P) i-orn iyashintsha ukuthi izingane zivuswa kanjani ngokocansi," waqhubeka I-Sharpe, futhi kwenzekani, "ngesikhathi esengozini kakhulu yokukhathazeka kwezempilo yengqondo nokulutha. Izidakamizwa eziningi nezinkinga zempilo yengqondo ziqala ebusheni. "

Isihloko se-Guardian siphakamise ukuthi, "Kuze kube yingxenye yesithathu yamadoda amasha manje abhekana nokusebenza kabi kwe-erectile."

Lo mkhuba usukhule kakhulu kangangokuthi unegama: "Ukukhubazeka kwe-Erectile e-Porn-Induced" (PIED).

"Esikhundleni sokubamba iqhaza lakhe ngokocansi kubantu abangempela, intsha yanamuhla itholakala phambi kwesikrini, futhi ipholisa izicubungula zakhe zocansi ukuze ibe yedwa ekamelweni lakhe, ukuba i-voyeurism kunokuba iqhaza," kusho i-video efundisayo, Ubuchopho Bentsha Ihambisana Ne-Porn Inthanethi Ephezulu.

"Umfokazi igama engingalisebenzisa ukuchaza indlela ozizwa ngayo lapho ngizama ukuya ocansini nabesifazane bangempela," kusho enye insizwa ecashunwe kule vidiyo. "Ngangizizwa ngingazi ukuthi ngizizwele futhi ngingangaphandle."

"Kunjengokuthi ngitholile ngakho-ke ngihlezi phambi kwesibuko (ukushaya indlwabu) ukuthi ingqondo yami ibheka ukuthi kube ngokobulili obuvamile esikhundleni sobulili langempela langempela," wanezela.

"Abesifazane bangangivuli, ngaphandle uma beyenziwe kabili nangemva kweso lami lokuqapha," kusho omunye.

Abanye babika ithemba labo lokuthola nokulondoloza ngesikhathi sokusondelana "ukucabanga ngocansi."

Njengoba lesi simo sishaya - emva kwakho konke, ukufinyelela kwe-intanethi okusheshayo okuhambisana nokufinyelela okulula, okuyimfihlo nge-Smartphones, iPads, kanye ne-laptop kumakhompiyutha amasha nje - ukuhlola okudingekayo kudingeke kwenziwe.

Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ubufakazi be-anecdotal buhlanganisa njengabachwepheshe - kuhlanganise nezingqondo zengqondo, izifo zengqondo, kanye nezifo ze-urologists - zibike ukuthi zizwa lezi zinhlobo zezikhala ezivela ezinsizweni ezadlula esikhathini esedlule ekuqapheni kobulili.

Urologist Paul Church utshele i-LifeSiteNews ukuthi nakuba okwamanje kungekho bufakazi obuqinekile bokuxhumana phakathi kokusetshenziswa kobulili nokusetshenziswa komzimba erectile, umphumela "unengqondo futhi abaningi abahlengikazi nabahlengikazi, kuhlanganise nami, bakholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi kuyinkinga enkulu kule sizukulwane esilandelayo. "

"Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi zingakanani izinsizwa ezihlukunyezwa ngu-ED. Kodwa kusobala ukuthi lokhu kuyinto entsha, futhi akuyona into engavamile, " kuphawulwe UDkt. Abraham Morgentaler, umqondisi we-Men's Health Boston kanye noprofesa wezokwelapha e-Harvard Medical School.

"Ngiyazi ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso nje ngenxa yalokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​kulokhu okwenzeka kubantu engibasebenzisana nabo," kusho uMaureen Newberg, isisebenzi senhlalakahle esemtholampilo esinelayisensi (LCSW) esisebenza endaweni yaseWashington, DC.

"Ngingumkhuba wangasese lapho amaphesenti angu-95 wamakhasimende ami abafana namadoda. Cishe zonke lezi maklayenti zinenkinga yezocansi noma ukulutha kabi kocansi, "umshado ovunyelwe umndeni kanye nomhlengikazi uDavid Pickup utshele i-LifeSiteNews.

"Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​ezindabeni zabo nokuphumelela kwabo ukuphuma ekusetshenzisweni kobulili kuye kwaholela ekutholeni ukuthi i-porn 'iyisidakamizwa esinamandla,'" kusho ukuPhumela.

Ukulutha ngokweqile, njengamanye okuluthayo, kuphazamisa izimpilo zesigqila sonke sezinsizwa. Isazi sezokwelapha esiyingqayizivele saseYurophu, uDkt. Gerard van den Aardweg, sithi:

I-porno-isigqila kukhona amadoda ampofu, ahlukaniswe nabathintana nabo. Lone wolfs. Lapho i-porno engaphezulu, iqinisa kakhulu ukukhathazeka kwabo okuncane kakhulu nesifiso sokuba "umuntu omkhulu," futhi ngaphansi kwabo abakwaziyo ukuxhumana nabo abaphilayo.

Imiphumela engalindelekile, engalindelekile ekusetshenzisweni kocansi okuvamile ngamadoda amasha mhlawumbe adlulisa ngaphezu kokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile nokunciphisa ubuhlobo bomshado obuphilile.

UMark Regnerus, uprofesa wezenhlalakahle eNyuvesi yaseTexas e-Austin kanye nomuntu ophakeme e-Austin Institute for the Study of Family and Culture, ukuphakanyiswa ukulungiswa phakathi kokusetshenziswa kocansi nokusekelwa komshado wobulili obufanayo emuva ku-2012.

Umcwaningi kuphawulwe ukuthi "Ukusekelwa kwamadoda amadala asetsheni ukuhlenga kabusha umshado kungase kungabi umkhiqizo wemibono mayelana nokukhululeka okukhulu, amalungelo, inkululeko, nokuzibophezela okuhloniphekile ekungeneni. Kungenzeka ukuthi, okungenani ngeyingxenye, umkhiqizo owenziwe ngokuzivelela okuvamile ezinyangeni ezihlukahlukene zobulili, "wafakaza nge-intanethi ye-intanethi.

"Izingosi zobulili ezingcolile ezithandwa kakhulu kuwebhu azenzi lutho ngokubandlulula isenzo esisodwa socansi - noma isigaba salo - kwesinye," kusho uRegnerus. "AbakwaGazers baphathwe ekhanda elincane lomlilo ukukhwabanisa ngokobulili-ukuhlukahluka kwesenzo."

"Lawa akuyona i-Playboy wakho omkhulu," wanezela.

Ubukhulu obunobuthi obukhulu namandla wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile nge-intanethi

Njengoba impi ekhuluma "amalungelo okukhuluma" amalungelo abantu abanobuciko bezocansi kanye nemikhiqizo yabo iye yahlaselwa amashumi eminyaka, bambalwa abaqaphele ukuthi ababukeli abesilisa abancane babezilimaza. Manje ukubulawa kwecala kungenakwenzeka ukungazinaki.

UDkt Donald Hilton, uprofesa ohlanganyele naye kwezomnyango eMnyangweni weNeurosurgery, University of Texas Medical School eSan Antonio futhi oyilungu leBhodi Yabaqondisi Bezempilo Yezikhungo Zezempilo Zobulili, wabhala embhalweni osesikhundleni obizwa nge- Izithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile: Ubuthi (akusatholakali).

Yonke indawo. I-Pornhub, indawo yesibili evakashelwe kakhulu enetheni, inabantu abangu-92 abayizigidigidi ezivakashela ku-2016, okwanele amavidiyo we-12.5 kuwo wonke umuntu emhlabeni. Sekuyiyona ndlela eyinhloko yemfundo yezocansi yabasha futhi ngisho nokuqapha manje, njengoba intsha eningi ibonile ukulala ngokobulili, kuhlanganise phakathi kwabantu abangaphezu kwezibili.

Lokhu ukukhipha ubulili obunobuthi ebuntwini kubonakalisa labo ababukeleyo futhi banomlutha kulabo abaqhubeka bewasebenzisa. Kodwa-ke, la maphuzu aphikisana kakhulu nomkhakha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nabapologists bezemfundo abawusizo. Bathi inkinga yodwa ye-porn iyinhlazo nokuziphatha okuhle okwakhiwa kuzo izinkolo zenkolo.

UDkt Jeffrey Satinover, ku isitatimende eyanikezelwa ikomidi leSenate lase-US e-2008, lachaza: "Kuye kwabonakala kubonakala sengathi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile aziyona nje indlela 'yokubonisa.' Ukufaneleka kwayo, ukungabi nalutho, noma ukukhohlakala njalo kuxoxwa ngakho ngokuvumelana 'nokuveza,' futhi imithetho yethu ibonisa okuningi. Siphikisana 'nokuziphatha' kwezincwadi zobulili ezingcolile; uhlobo lwayo njengesithunzi 'esiphakeme' noma 'esiphansi'; kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona 'ukuhlenga inani.' Ukubhekisela emisebenzini 'yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile' kanye 'nezenzo' zokudansa 'kocansi' kuhlanganiswa emazingeni aphakeme kakhulu e-American constitutional jurisprudence-amagama ngama-quotation marks okwenza kucace ukuthi ukuqonda izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyisisekelo futhi kungenakuphikiswa. "

"Ngokufika kwekhompiyutha, uhlelo lokulethwa kwalesi sigameko sokulutha (i-intanethi ye-intanethi) seluvele lube lukhululekile," kuqhubeka uSatinover.

"Kunjengokungathi sihlele uhlobo lwe-heroin 100 izikhathi ezinamandla kakhulu kunangaphambili, ezisetshenziselwa ubumfihlo bekhaya lomuntu futhi zijove ngqo ebuchosheni ngamehlo," wanezela i-Satinover. "Manje itholakala ekunikezeni okungenamkhawulo nge-self-replicating network distribution, ehlonishwa njengezobuciko futhi evikelwe uMthethosisekelo."

Ukuhlehlisa umonakalo

UDkt Tim Lock, isazi sezokwelapha kwengqondo kanye nomsizi wesazi esikhungweni se-Institute for the Psychological Sciences, i-Divine Mercy University.

I-PIED izoba nathi "kuze kube yilapho amadoda ekhuliswa ngekhono lokuzithiba futhi abazali bangaqiniseka ngesidingo sokusebenzisa i-intanethi yokuhlunga (kanye nokuphendula kwe-intanethi) ukuvimbela izingane zabo ukuba zingene kumawebhusayithi angafanele," kusho Khiya esitatimendeni ku-LifeSiteNews. "Akuyona elula noma engenamandla ukukhulisa ingane ehlonipha ukuzithiba, ubumsulwa, ubumsulwa nokuthobeka. Abafundisi bezingane kumele baqale baqiniseke ngalezi zimiso. "

"Kunzima ukuyithengisa," kusho u-Lock. "Ngaphandle kokuba niyazi ukuthi iNkosi yethu ifikile ukunikeza ukuphila, nokuyipha okuningi."

UDkt. Hilton uveza izinyathelo ezine ezibalulekile:

  • Okokuqala, kufanele sivikele isizukulwane esilandelayo ebuhlotsheni obunobuthi obukhuthazwa imboni yezocansi kanye nabalandeli bakhe be-apologists;
  • Okwesibili, kumele sibuyele emphakathini lapho abantu abadala bengafuni ukuziphatha okubi kobulili;
  • Okwesithathu, isiko lethu ngokungafani nokungafani nokucwasa ngokobulili, kodwa sigubha bobabili uma abantu bezocansi futhi amakhamera ahamba. Kumele sibambe imboni yezocansi ibe ngumgomo ofanayo;
  • Okwesine, kumele sibuyele emkhakheni wenhlonipho, uzwela, nesihe, okuwukuphikiswa komkhuba wesimanje wezocansi.

Ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nokuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile nokuphunyuka imiphumela yalo engaba yingozi lungatholakala kwiwebhusayithi ewusizo yezwe, Ubuchopho bakho ku-Porn.

Impendulo engekelwe ebuKristwini ekugqilazweni kokusetshenziswa kocansi inikezwa ngu Zama.

11 March 2019. Ku-athikili enkulu yokuphila U-Amy Fleming, UMary Sharpe wacashunwe kakhulu The Guardian ekusetshenzisweni kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nokusebenza kabi kwe-erectile.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/11/young-men-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction

Ingabe i-porn yenza izinsizwa zingenamandla?

Kuze kube okwesithathu kwabesilisa abasha manje bathola ukukhubazeka kwe-erectile. Abanye baphendukela ezinyathelweni ezimbi kakhulu ezifana nezimpande ze-penile - kodwa ukukhahla izithombe zabo ezingcolile zobulili kuyisixazululo kuphela?

Ukungasebenzi kwe-Erectile
Umfanekiso: Nishant Choksi

TNansi umkhankaso wesikhangiso okhangisa imigudu yeLondon Underground ephethe isiqubulo esithi "ED ISAHLULE" eduze kwesithombe somuntu okhangelekayo ohloniphekile. "Ungakhathazeki," kusho ngokubhala okuncane ngaphansi. "U-Ed akayena umfana. Kuyinto into guy. Kuyinto emfushane yokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile. "Ama-posters ayakhuthaza umkhiqizo omusha i-sildenafil (eyaziwa ngokuthi i-Viagra), okufanele sicabange ukubulala le nkinga. Kodwa, njengoba ikhona, i-ED isivele ifile.

Imakethe esemqoka ye-Viagra esetshenziselwa ukuba yindoda endala enempilo engafanele, kodwa ngokusho kwezifundo zakamuva kanye nokuhlola, phakathi kuka-14% no-35% wamadoda amasha ahlangabezana ne-ED. "Kuyadangisa kodwa kuyiqiniso," kusho uMary Sharpe of the Isisekelo Somvuzo, i-charity yemfundo egxile othandweni, ucansi kanye ne-intanethi. "Kuze kube yi-2002, izibalo zamadoda ngaphansi kwe-40 ne-ED zazizungeze i-2-3%. Kusukela ku-2008, lapho ukusakaza okukhululekile, izithombe ezingcolile ze-porn-definition ezitholakala kalula, kuye kwavuka ngokushesha. "Ubufakazi, ukwelashwa futhi i-anecdotal, ikhuphuka ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zisetshenziswa kuyisici esibalulekile.

Ukuxhumanisa i-ED nokusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile

UClare Faulkner, isazi socansi nobudlelwane obuhle esiseLondon, uphakathi kwalabo abaxhumanisa i-ED nokusetshenziswa kocansi. "Nginamakhasimende e-ED kuma-20 awo okuqala," usho kanje. Ingxenye yenkinga yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ukuthi "kuyinto ehlukene kakhulu. Ukukhuthazwa kuyeza ngaphandle, okungenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuba kube emzimbeni wakho. "Kubuye kuqhubekisele phambili inganekwane, ukuthi" amadoda angamadwala kanzima futhi abesifazane besilungele ukulala ngokobulili ngaso sonke isikhathi ".

Ababukeli bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile bajwayele ukulawula ngokugcwele isipiliyoni sabo sezocansi - okuyinto futhi, kusho uFaulkner, "akuphindaphindiwe ezweni langempela". Ukubhekana nomuntu ongokoqobo, onzima, enezidingo nokungaqiniseki, kungase kube ngokujulile-ukubeka.

PIED

Ezingqungqutheleni ze-intanethi ezizinikezele ekusebenziseni i-erectile i-erectile (PIED), ama-makumi ezinkulungwane ezinsizwa ahlanganyela izingxabano zabo ukuyeka ukusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ukuqhubeka kwabo kusuka ezithombeni ezincane ezithandwayo kuya ezinkingeni nezinkinga ababhekana nazo ekwenzeni ubuhlobo bomshado wangempela nobulili. Kunzima ukufakazela ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zidala i-ED, kodwa lobufakazi buyaphinda ukuthola okutholakala ezincwadini zemitholampilo: ukuthi uma amadoda engakwazi ukukhipha umkhuba wabo we-porn, baqala ukuvuselela ikhono labo lokuvuswa nokuphila kwangempela.

Amanye amantombazane aseqalile ukunyakaza kwawo okusekelayo, njengokuthi I-NoFap (slang for "akukho masturbating"), eyasungulwa e-US ngu-Alexander Rhodes. (U-Sharpe uthi lezi zinsizwa manje "zilinganisa ukushaya indlwabu ngezithombe zobulili ezingcolile - azizibonisi ngokwahlukana".) URhodes, manje ose-31, waqala ukusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwi-11 noma i-12. "Ngangisesizukulwaneni sokuqala sabantu abakhule nge-porn internet esheshayo," esho enkulumweni yakamuva ye-intanethi.

Ngesikhathi eqala ukulala ocansini ku-19, waqhubeka wathi: "Angikwazi ukugcina i-erection ngaphandle kokucabanga nge-porn. I-porn-speed ye-intanethi ye-intanethi kwakuyimfundo yami yezocansi. "Ngonyaka odlule, watshela izilaleli esikhungweni sikazwelonke se-US National Sexual Exploitation:" Izingane zase-United States kanye neningi lamazwe athuthukile ziyaxhaswa nge-inthanethi lapho kuvezwa khona izithombe ezingcolile cishe kunesibopho. "

Abasebenzisi be-Porn baqala basha

Iminyaka emincane lapho iRhode yaqala khona ukubuka izithombe zocansi ayisiyonto ingajwayelekile. E-2016, i-Middlesex University yathola ukuthi, nge-60% yezingane iqale ukuyibuka emakhaya abo. Futhi isifundo se-Irish eshicilelwe ngasekuqaleni konyaka emaphephandabeni I-Porn Studies ithole ukuthi u-52% wabafana baqala ukusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngokushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi se-13 noma ngaphansi. Imithombo yezokuxhumana ingaba isango, kusho uSharpe. "Izinkanyezi ezingcolile zine-akhawunti yama-Instagram ngakho zithola izingane ukuba zibuke ku-Instagram, futhi ngaphakathi kwezinto zazo zizobe zithi: 'Bheka ividiyo yami yakamuva.' Ukuchofoza okukodwa noma kokubili futhi ubheka i-hardcore porn. Izingane ze-12 noma i-13 akufanele zibheke izinto eziqinile ze-hardcore. "

I-Reward Foundation ayiyona inhlangano ephikisana nocansi, kusho uSharpe, "kodwa izithombe ezingcolile zishintsha ukuthi izingane zivuswa kanjani ngokocansi". Futhi kwenzeka ezinyangeni zabo zokwenza izinto, "ngesikhathi esengozini kakhulu yokukhathazeka kwezempilo yengqondo nokulutha. Izidakamizwa eziningi nezinkinga zempilo yengqondo ziqala ebusheni. "Yena noFaulkner bakholelwa ukuthi ukukhuphuka kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kungase kubangele ukuthi Izinkulungwane zeminyaka zinezocansi ezincane kunesizukulwane ngaphambi kwazo, ngokusho kocwaningo olushicilelwe encwadini ethi Archives of Sexual Behavior.

Okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu oyimfihlo

I-Gabe Deem, umsunguli wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile alulame Qala kabusha isizwe, ukhuluma ngokusobala ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. Ngesikhathi eseyi-23, uthe: "Ngazama ukulala naye nentombazane enhle, owesifazane engangikuthandayo kakhulu, futhi akukho okwenzekile. Angizange ngizizwe ngiphakamise ngokomzimba futhi ngingeke ngithole kancane kancane i-erection. "

Njengamanye okuluthayo, kusho uFaulkner: "Abantu badinga ukulinganisa okunamandla ukuze bafike phezulu. Kuhlala njalo ngokucindezela imingcele ukuze uthole injabulo efanayo. Okusho ukuthi yini ababukeleyo ithola okunye okunzima futhi okukwesabayo. Ngithole amaklayenti angitshele ukuthi awatholi kahle ngezinto ababukeleyo. "Lapho abacwaningi behlola ubuchopho bokusebenzisa abasebenzisi bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, u-Sharpe uthi:" Babona izinguquko ezifanayo zobuchopho ezivamile kuzo zonke izidakamizwa. "

Ukukhathazeka Komsebenzi

Abanye basenqaba ukuphakama kwe-ED phakathi kwabesilisa abasha ukusebenza ukukhathazeka, kodwa u-Sharpe uthi kuyilapho lokhu kungase kwenzeke kwabanye, "Okukuzwayo kusukela otholampilo, ochwepheshe bezocansi, odokotela nabantu ababhekana nokuziphatha kocansi okuphoqelela ukuthi okungaphezu kwe-80% yezinkinga ezihlobene nezocansi." I-Reward Foundation iye bebelokhu beqhuba ama-workshops nabasebenzi bezempilo e-UK futhi bathola ukuthi odokotela nabasokhemisti abacabangi ngisho nokucela iziguli zabo zesilisa ezincane ezine-ED mayelana nokusetshenziswa kwabo kocansi. "Banika i-Viagra futhi akusebenzi abaningi babo," kusho uSharpe. "Akukona ukubhekana nenkinga ebalulekile."

Uma izidakamizwa zingasebenzi, u-Sharpe uzwile ngamadoda amancane athola izimpande ze-penile (i-prosthetics efakwe epenisini ukusiza ukuphazamiseka). "Omunye wabahlanganyeli bezokwelapha kwelinye lamasifundisane wethu ngonyaka odlule wathi isiguli sasinezimpande ezimbili." Akekho oye wacabanga ukumbuza mayelana nokusetshenziswa kocansi.

Esikhathini sokuvakasha esikoleni samanje, u-Sharpe uyakhumbula, umfana osemusha wambuza ukuthi zingaki ngosuku ngosuku ukushaya indlwabu kungcolile kakhulu. "Basebenzisa ngaso sonke isikhathi," kusho uSharpe, "futhi akekho obatshela ukuthi kuyinkinga."

24 February 2019. UMary Sharpe unikeze ukuhlaziywa kochwepheshe emaphephandabeni kule nkinga ebuhlungu kakhulu eNkantolo yaseScotland. Yashaqeka isizwe. Le ndaba nayo iyatholakala kusukela ngeSonto Post njenge ""

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