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Ababhangqwana Bokubambisana Ababili

Nakuba umshado ngokwawo ungase ube isikhungo esakhelwe umphakathi, isifiso sokuba umbhangqwana ungokwemvelo. Ubulili nokubopha kokubili kukhona imivuzo yemvelo. Abantu bayingxenye yeqembu elingaphansi kwe-5% yezilwane ezincelisayo ezibizwa ngokuthi izigqila ezimbili. Lokhu kusho ukuthi sinezinhlaka zobuchopho ezisivumela ukuba sishade ngokuphila, sibe nomuntu oyedwa womuntu, njengama-swans. Basivumela ukuba sibophezele isikhathi eside, isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuba abanakekeli ababili bakwazi ukukhulisa izingane zabo. Kodwa ukuthi 'ukuhlala nomuntu oyedwa oyedwa' akufani neze 'nokuzibandakanya ngokocansi'. Isivivinyo sokuthi 'sidlale ekhaya' sikhona cishe zonke izilwane ezincelisayo ezibandakanya abantu. Ukubuyekezwa okuhle kwezincwadi kuyatholakala lapha.

The uhlelo lokuvuza yilapho lezi zakhiwo zokubambisana zombili zikhona. Yisakhiwo esifanayo esisiholela eminye imivuzo yemvelo yokudla namanzi. Ngokudabukisayo, yilapho lapho kusetshenzwa khona umvuzo noma ukuvuselela okufana nokuphuza utshwala, i-nicotine kanye nezidakamizwa. Bashaya uhlelo lokujabula / umvuzo. Eqinisweni, imivuzo yokufakelwa i-cocaine no-alcohol ingabangela umuzwa okhudlwana kakhulu wokuzijabulisa kunezocansi. Abacwaningi bathole ukuthi izibopho zombili, uma kuqhathaniswa nezilwane eziphathekayo ngokwemvelo, ziyakwazi ukujwayela umlutha. Sizobona kamuva ngaphansi kwe-The Coolidge Effect ngezansi ukuthi kungani lokhu kuyinkinga yangempela yokusekela uthando.

Ukubambisana nokuthembela kubalulekile. Ngokuvamile sifuna ukuveza uthando emzimbeni wethu njengokungqongqoza, ukumanga, ukucindezela, ukungena ngaphakathi nokulala. Ukuthinta othandekayo "kududuza isilo esibi" futhi siphulukisa kakhulu. Umbhangqwana onobungane obuthandanayo ngempela ngokomzimba philisa ngokushesha ngemuva kokulimala. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sicabanga ngothando ngokuthandana ngothando, noma ngokuthanda okukhulu nokuthanda, le mizwa nemizwelo ihlangene ikakhulukazi ebuchosheni. Ngakho ngokufunda ngendlela esingakwazi ngayo ukuthi ubuchopho busebenza kanjani kuyosisiza ukuba sibhekane nalezi zimzwelo ezithuthukisa impilo ngokwemvelo ngokwengeziwe.

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