uthando njengesibopho

Uthando njengokubambisana

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kokuqala kothando ngokuvamile kuvela kumama wethu, noma abanye abanakekeli abasisondeza lapho sisebancane kakhulu ukuba singazivikela. Abomama bakhiqiza amazinga aphezulu kakhulu we-neurochemical 'oxytocin' kokubili ekubelethweni nangesifuba. Lokhu kusiza omama nabantwana ukubopha komunye nomunye. I-oxytocin umama okhiqiza kulezi zinyathelo zakuqala ivela kwenye ingxenye yengqondo kunalokho eyenziwa ubungane nokuhlangana kocansi. Lolu thando njengesibopho kamuva lusekela ukuthuthukiswa kocansi.

Oxytocin unesibopho somzwa wokuphepha, ukuphepha nokuthembela. Ineminye imisebenzi futhi, ezinye zazo zingaphansi kocuddly, njengokuzwa 'schadenfreude', noma ukugcoba ukwehluleka komuntu. Ngokujwayelekile namazinga aphezulu we-oxytocin, siyachuma. Ivumela ukuthi sihlakulele ama-neural receptors asisiza sibophe nabanye abantu. Uma sithola ama-oxytocin more receptors, sithuthukisa kakhulu i-oxytocin.

Ake ucabange i-gazelle ehlukanisiwe nomhlambi nokuthi uyesaba kanjani. Kuyinto elula inyama yezilwane ezidliwayo. Abantu bayizizwe ngokwemvelo futhi. Kukhona ukuphepha ngezinombolo. Esikhathini esidlule, ukuthunjwa, ukuxoshwa emndenini nabangane, kwaba esinye sezijeziso ezimbi kunazo zonke umuntu angazithola. Ukuvalelwa yedwa kwafana.

I-Oxytocin ineminye imisebenzi. Kuyasiza ukunciphisa amazinga okucindezeleka kwe-neurochemical i-cortisol. Kunganciphisa ukunciphisa ushukela noma ezinye izinto eziluthayo. Isibonelo kungaba ukuvimbela ukuzithandela kotshwala ngokuzithandela.

Izindlela eziningi zokuziphatha zikhuthaza ukukhululwa kwe-oxytocin ebuchosheni bethu, njengokuthi: ukulenga nama-pals; ukusiza abanye; ukusebenzisa isikhathi emvelweni; ukudweba noma ukudweba; ukucula; ukuphumula umculo omnandi; ukushaya isilwane; ubambe izandla; ukumanga; ukudubula; futhi imisebenzi ithanda ukuzindla, yoga, noma Pilates. Ikhuthaza imizwa yokuzwela, ukukhathalela, ukudlala, nokwazisa. Sizizwa siphephile nalabo esibaziyo futhi bethemba.

Ngaleso sikhathi, ukushayisana okudala kwakuvumela umbhangqwana ukuba wazi omunye ngaphambi kokungena emndenini wobulili. Ubuhlobo obugxile ekugculiseni isifiso sobulili kuphela, aluvumeli ukwethenjwa okudingekayo, uthando nokubopha ukuthuthukisa.

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