Ukwehlisa isifiso sobulili

Ukwehlisa isifiso sobulili

Ukwehlisa isifiso socansi kuyinkinga yangempela ebuhlotsheni besikhathi eside. Iza ngenxa yokukhiqiza i-dopamine encane ngesikhathi sokuhlangana kocansi nomlingani ofanayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ubuchopho buyanciphisa inani layo le-dopamine receptors ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukucubungula umphumela womvuzo owenziwe lowo muntu. I-Dopamine yi-neurochemical eqhuba isifiso nesisusa. Ithelela ekuveleni. Ngemuva kokuthi 'izinkinga ze-neurochemicals' zezinkanyezi ziye zaphela, singazizwa singaphansi noma asikho isifiso sobulili noma isifiso somlingani wethu. Singase sigxile ekwakheni umsebenzi noma ukukhulisa izingane kunalokho. Akusho ukuthi asizizwa sithandana noma siboshwe kumlingani wethu, leso sifiso sobulili singaphansi kwalezo zakuqala, izinsuku eziyinhloko zethando.

Leyo nzwa yokuzikhukhumeza ingadlulisela abantu abathile ukuba bafune amathuba amasha wokubambisana nabalingani abazithandayo, okubonakalayo noma kwangempela. Namuhla ukukhwabanisa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi kubangela ukuhlukunyezwa ebuhlotsheni abaningi. I-Coolidge Effect yisona isizathu sokuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, kodwa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi ikakhulukazi, zikhangisa kakhulu. Ukusakazwa okuqhubekayo kwamanoveli namano abonakala sengathi bazimisele ukuvela kuyatholakala kithi, ngokuswayipha, chofoza noma uthephe. Ngaphandle kwe-Coolidge Effect, bekungeke kube ne-porn ye-intanethi. Ubuchopho bomlenze bokuqala abukwazi ukutshela umehluko phakathi kwabalingani bangempela kanye nezinguqulo ze-2-dimensional, zangempela zangempela esibukweni.

Ukuze usize ukuvuselela inhlansi, ukushintshanisa ukuziphatha okubambisana kunconywa kakhulu. Lezi zibonakaliso ezingenasisindo kumqondo womlenze osiza ukuqinisa umuzwa wokuhlukanisa noma ukufutheka. Bona lokhu kuyasiza esihlokweni ukuze uthole imininingwane eyengeziwe. Enye yezincwadi ezinhle kunawo wonke emakethe ukuthi akugcini nje kuphela ukubeka isifo se-neuroscience ne-psychology esenza lesi siqephu senzeke kodwa futhi sinesiqondiso sinyathelo ngesinyathelo sokuyiphulukisa, Umcibisholo onobuthi we-Cupid- Kusukela ku-Habit to Harmony in Relationships Sexual, ngo-Marnia Robinson. Okungatholakala lapha. Bheka futhi lokhu podcast ngokubuka okusheshayo kwendaba nomlobi.

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