i-stimulus oystercatcher engavamile

Ukuvuthwa Okungajwayelekile

Lesi sigaba sisekelwe ezincwadini ezivela kuGary Wilson Ubuchopho bakho ku-Porn, i-Inthanethi Ye-Porn kanye neSayensi Ekhulayo Yokulutha kanye nemvume yoMlobi.

Kuyini ukuvuselela okungavamile?

Amagama ama-Erotic, izithombe namavidiyo ayekade ehamba isikhathi eside-kanti unezimpikiswano ze-neurochemical ezivela kumlingani weveli. Ngakho yini eyenza i-porn namuhla iphoqele? Akuyona nje intsha yayo engapheli. I-Dopamine iyashisa iminye imizwelo kanye nethonya futhi, konke okuvame ukubukeka ngokuphawulekayo kwi-porn ye-intanethi:

• Ukumangalisa, ukushaqeka (Yini engesabisayo kuma-porn namuhla?)

• Ukukhathazeka (Ukusebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile ezingahambisani namagugu akho noma ubulili)

• Ukufuna nokucwaninga (Ukufuna, ukulindela)

Eqinisweni, izithombe ze-intanethi zibukeka kakhulu njengalokho ososayensi ababiza ngokuthi ukuvuselela okungavamile. Eminyakeni eyedlule, umzukulu weNobel u-Nikolaas Tinbergen wathola ukuthi izinyoni, izimvemvane nezinye izilwane zingase ziphonswe ekukhethweni kwamaqanda namaqabane amanga. Ngokwesibonelo, izinyoni zezinsikazi zazinzima ukuhlala amaqanda asePitbergen amakhulu kakhulu kunamaphiko aphikisiwe, kanti amaqanda abo aphuzile, amaqabunga aphelile aphelelwe yisikhathi. Ama-jewel beetle angamnaki umlingani wangempela ngenxa yemizamo engenamsebenzi okumele ilandelwe ngamabhodlela ama-bhisikidi amnyama. Ku-beetle, ibhodlela lebhiya elilele emhlabathini libukeka njengowesifazane omkhulu kunabo bonke, omnandi kunabo bonke, owake wambona.

Ngamanye amazwi, kunokuba impendulo engokwemvelo imise endaweni 'enhle' lapho ingahambi khona isilwane ngaphandle komdlalo wokulinganisa, lolu hlelo lokusebenza oluqhubekayo luyaqhubeka nokufaka izimpendulo zentshiseko ekusebenziseni okungenangqondo, okwenziwe ngezakhi.

I-Tinbergen yaqamba ukukhohliswa okungaphezulu kweqhinga elinjalo, nakuba manje livame ukubhekwa ngokuthi 'into engavamile.'

Izinyathelo ezingavamile kakhulu yizinguqulo eziphenyisayo ze-stimuli evamile esizibona njengeyigugu. Ngokuthakazelisayo, nakuba kungenakwenzeka ukuthi i-monkey ingakhetha izithombe phezu kwabalingani bangempela, izinkawu 'ziyokhokha' (umvuzo we-prego juice) ukubuka izithombe zezinsikazi zezimbuzi. Mhlawumbe akusimangazi ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zanamuhla zingasiphazamisa isimo sethu semvelo.

I-porn ye-intanethi ishukumisa kanjani kakhulu?

Uma senza ukugqugquzelwa okungavamile kokubaluleke kakhulu okuyiyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu ngoba kubangele ukuqhuma okukhulu kwe-dopamine emjikelezweni wokuvuza wengqondo yethu kunomlingani wayo wemvelo. Kubasebenzisi abaningi, omagazini bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile babengenakukwazi ukuncintisana nabalingani bangempela. Umdlalo we-Playboy awuzange uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphendule abanye abasebenzisi bokuqala bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile base befunde ukuxhumana nabantu abangokoqobo noma abalingani bangempela: ukuxhumana kwamehlo, ukuthinta, iphunga, ukuthakazelisa kokudlala ngothando nokudansa, kuqala, ucansi nokunye.

Kodwa-ke, izithombe zobulili ze-inthanethi zanamuhla zithathwa ngokuvuselela okungavamile. Okokuqala, inikeza ama-hotties angenamkhawulo angakapheli atholakala ngokuchofoza. Ucwaningo luqinisekisa ukuthi ukulindela umvuzo kanye nokwaziswa okukhulumisanayo kukwandisa ukukhulisa injabulo futhi kubuyiselwe umjikelezo wesifunda sobuchopho.
Okwesibili, izithombe ze-intanethi zinikeza amabele amaningi angathuthukiswa futhi i-Viagra i-gargantuan penises, izikhwama ezikhukhumezayo zesifiso, ukushayela iminyango, ukufakela kabili noma kathathu, ukungena kwezingxabano nezinye izimo ezingenakwenzeka.

Okwesithathu, kubantu abaningi, izithombe ezinembile azikwazi ukuqhathaniswa namavidiyo we-3 wamaminithi we-namuhla wabantu ababandakanya ubulili obukhulu. Ngezinsikazi zobununu obunqunu konke okwakunakho kwakungumcabango wakho. Uyazi njalo ukuthi kuzokwenzekani okulandelayo, okwakungeyona enkulu ye-pre-internet 13 oneminyaka eminyaka ubudala. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ngokusakazwa okungapheli kokuthi 'Angikwazi ukukholelwa lokho engikubonayo' amavidiyo, okulindelweyo kuphulwa njalo (okuyinto ubuchopho buthola okunye okuvuselelayo). Gcina futhi engqondweni, ukuthi abantu baguqukile ukuze bafunde ngokubuka abanye benza izinto, ngakho amavidiyo anamandla kakhulu 'ukuthi angafunda kanjani' kunamanje.

Ngokuziqhenya kwezesayensi-fiction okwakungenza iTibbergen ithi, 'Ngikutshele kanjalo', abasebenzisi be-porn banamuhla bavame ukuthola ukuthi i-internet eerotica iyakhuthaza kakhulu kunezakwethu zangempela. Abasebenzisi bangase bangathandi ukuchitha amahora bazingelwa phambi kwekhompuyutha eqala ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile bese bechofoza ngokucindezela emifanekisweni emisha. Bangase bakhethe ukuchitha isikhathi bexhumane nabangani kanye nokuhlangana nabalingani abangaba khona kule nqubo.

Kodwa impela kunzima ukuncintisana ezingeni lempendulo yengqondo, ikakhulukazi lapho umuntu ephonsa ekulinganiseni ukungaqiniseki nokuguqulwa kokuxhumana komphakathi. Njengoba iSonto LikaNowa libeka encwadini yakhe I-Wack: Inomlutha we-Porn Internet, 'akusikho ukuthi angifuni ubulili bangempela, nje ukuthi kwakunzima kakhulu futhi kudideka kakhulu ukuphishekela ukulandela izithombe ezingcolile.' Futhi lokhu kuthola i-echo kuma-akhawunti amaningi okuqala:

"Ngahamba isikhathi sokungashadile, ngigxila edolobhaneni elincane lapho kwakukhona khona amathuba ambalwa okuthandana, futhi ngaqala ukushaya indlwabu kaningi nge-pornography. Ngangimangaza ukuthi ngisheshe ngiphumelela kanjani. Ngaqala ukulahlekelwa izinsuku zokusebenza ngidinga amasayithi e-porn. Kodwa angizange ngikuqonde ngokugcwele okwakungenzeka kimi kuze kube yilapho ngilala embhedeni nomunye wesifazane futhi ngizibambe ngenyameko ukukhumbula isithombe esithandekayo se-porn ukuze ngithole kanzima. Angizange ngicabange ukuthi kungenzeke kimi. Ngenhlanhla, nginesisekelo eside sokulala ocansini enempilo ngaphambi kocansi futhi ngabona ukuthi kwenzekani. Ngemva kokuyeka, ngaqala ukuphinda ngibekwe futhi futhi kaningi. Futhi ngemva nje kwalokho ngahlangana nomkami. "

Indlela Indlwana Yezithombe Esebenzisa Ngayo I-Stimuli Engavamile

Lezi zinsuku, akukho ukuphela kokugqugquzela okungaphezu kokuvamile. Imbonini yezocansi ihlinzekela kakade izithombe ze-3-D nezombhobhothi kanye namathoyizi wezocansi ezihambisana ne-porn noma abanye abasebenzisi bekhompyutha ukuze balingise isenzo somzimba. Kodwa ingozi ilala lapho kukhona okuthile:

• Ukubhalisa njengento 'eyigugu' ikakhulukazi, okungukuthi, inguqulo exaggerated yento okhokho bethu (futhi thina) ababa nayo ukuze bathole ukunganaki (ukudla okuphezulu kwekhalori, ukuvuswa kocansi),
• itholakale kalula ngokunikezwa okungenamkhawulo (engatholakali emvelweni),
• iza ezinhlobonhlobo (intsha eningi),
• futhi siyaziqhenya ngokweqile.

Ukuncishiswa okuncane, okuningi okungenamsoco kufanelana nalesi simodeli futhi kuhlonishwa yonke indawo njengento evusa kakhulu. Ungaphula isiphuzo se-32-ounce esithambile kanye nesigxobo sezinyosi ezisawoti ngaphandle kokucatshangwa, kodwa zama nje ukudla ama-caloric alinganayo eminyameni eyomile kanye nezimpande ezibilisiwe!

Ngokufanayo, ababukeli basebenzisa amahora amaningi ngokushisa imidwebo yamavidiyo angcolile afuna ividiyo efanele ukuqedela, ukugcina i-dopamine ephakanyisiwe ngezikhathi ezingavamile. Kodwa zama ukucabanga ukuthi umzingeli-umqoqi uvame ukuchitha inani elifanayo lamahora ngokushaya indlwabu ukuze abuyele emdongeni wamapulangwe. Akukwenzekanga.

I-Porn ibeka izingozi ezihlukile ngaphandle kokuvuselela okungavamile. Okokuqala, kulula ukufinyelela, ikhona i-24 / 7, yamahhala neyimfihlo. Okwesibili, abasebenzisi abaningi baqala ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngokukhulelwa, lapho ubuchopho babo bebukhulu babo besipulasitiki futhi besengozini enkulu yokulutha nokugqilaza. Okokugcina, kunemingcele ekusetshenzisweni kokudla: amandla omzimba kanye nokuphazamiseka kwemvelo okukhahlela lapho singakwazi ukubhekana nokulunywa okunye kokuthile.

Ngokuphambene, akukho mingcele ngokomzimba ekusetshenzisweni kwe-intanethi ye-intanethi, ngaphandle kwesidingo sokulala nokuphumula. Umsebenzisi angakwazi ukunqanda (ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle kokucindezeleka) kuma-porn amahora ngaphandle kokubangela imizwa ye-satiation, noma ukuphikisa.

Ukuzibheka ngezinsizwa zobulili ezingcolile kuyasizwa njengesithembiso senjabulo, kodwa khumbula ukuthi umlayezo we-dopamine awunelisekile. Kuyinto, 'uqhubeke, ukwaneliseka kuseduze kwekhoneni':

"Ngizovusa eduze ne-orgasm bese ngima, ngihlale ngibheka izithombe ezingcolile, futhi ngihlala emazingeni aphakathi, njalo ngiyahlela. Ngangikhathazekile kakhulu ngokubuka izithombe ezingcolile kunokuba ngifinyelele ku-orgasm. Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zangivalele ekugqibeleni kuze kube sekugcineni ngisuke ngikhathele futhi ngisondelene nokuzinikela.

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