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Njengabazali nabanakekeli niyizibonelo ezinhle kakhulu nomthombo wokuqondisa ezinganeni zakho. Lo mhlahlandlela wabazali bezithombe zocansi ze-inthanethi uzokusiza uzizwe uqiniseka ngokwanele ukuba nezingxoxo eziyinselele. Funda ngemiphumela yempilo yengqondo ye-porn, umthelela womzimba kanye nemiphumela emibi yezocansi. Lolu lwazi luzokuvumela ukuthi uvikele izingane zakho ezinhlobonhlobo zokulimazeka okuye kwahlonzwa ochwepheshe bezempilo kanye nezinkulungwane zabasebenzisi bangaphambili. Sifaka isigaba ekuthumeleni imiyalezo yocansi kanye nemiphumela esemthethweni kuwe nengane yakho.

Eminyakeni yokuthomba, izingane ziqala ukufuna ukwazi kakhulu ngocansi futhi zifuna ukufunda okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngakho. Ngani? Ngoba inani eliphambili lokuqala leNdalo ukukhiqizwa kocansi, ukudlulisela ngofuzo. Futhi senzelwe ukugxila kukho, sikulungele noma cha. I-intanethi yindawo yokuqala abantwana abaqala ngayo ukuthola izimpendulo.

Abafana bavame ukusebenzisa izingosi ze-porn ukwedlula amantombazane, futhi amantombazane akhetha izingosi zokuxhumana futhi athakazela kakhulu izindaba ezingamanyala, njenge-Shades engu-50 kaGrey. Lokhu kuyingozi ehlukile yamantombazane. Ukwenza isibonelo, sizwe ngentombazane eneminyaka engu-9 ubudala eyayilanda futhi ifunda i-porn eilandisayo kwi-Kindle yayo. Lokhu kwenzeka yize umama wakhe efaka imikhawulo nezilawuli kuwo wonke amanye amadivayisi akwazi ukufinyelela kuwo, kepha hhayi uMusa.

I-TRF Twitter @brain_love_Sexbhubhane

Ngesikhathi sobhubhane, isithukuthezi sizovumela izingane ezengeziwe ngengozi noma ngomklamo, ukuthi zihlangane nokuthola okungapheli kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Ngaphandle kokuthi ufundise wena, bese ingane yakho / izingane zakho, ngemiphumela engaba khona empilweni yengqondo nangokomzimba, lapho-ke usengozini enkulu yezinkinga ngokuzayo. Uxolo ngokungabi nalutho, kepha lokhu kuhlola okungokoqobo.

Sibutsetelo Izingozi ze-Porn

Umkhuba wokubuka ezocansi unamandla okubangela imiphumela elandelayo elandelayo:

Isolation Social
  • ukuhoxa emisebenzini yomphakathi
  • ukuthuthukisa impilo eyimfihlo
  • ukuqamba amanga nokukhohlisa abanye
  • ukuzidela
  • ukukhetha i-porn ngaphezu kwabantu
Izinkinga zemizwelo
  • uzizwe engaphathekile kahle
  • uzizwe ethukuthele futhi ecindezelekile
  • ubhekana nokushintshana kwemizwelo
  • ukukhathazeka okugcwele nokwesaba
  • ngizizwa ngingenamandla maqondana ne-porn
Ngocansi abanye abantu
  • ukuphatha abantu njengezinto zocansi
  • ukwahlulela abantu ikakhulu ngokuya kwezitho zabo zomzimba
  • ubhekana nokushintshana kwemizwelo
  • Ukungahloniphi izidingo zabanye abantu zangasese nokuphepha
  • ukunganaki ngokuziphatha okulimazayo ngokocansi
Ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuyingozi nokuyingozi
  • ukufinyelela i-porn emsebenzini noma esikoleni
  • ukufinyelela izithombe zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane
  • ukubamba iqhaza ezenzweni zokuhlukumeza, zokuhlukumeza, zobudlova, noma zobugebengu
  • ukukhiqiza, ukusabalalisa noma ukuthengisa ezocansi
  • ukuzibandakanya ocansini olungaphephile nolimazayo
Umlingani osondelene naye ongathandeki
  • ubudlelwane bulinyazwa ukungathembeki nenkohliso mayelana nokusebenzisa izithombe zocansi
  • umlingani ubheka i-porn njengokungathembeki ie "ukukopela"
  • umlingani wami uya ngokuya ecasukile futhi ethukuthele
  • ubudlelwane buyehla ngenxa yokungethembani nenhlonipho
  • umlingani ukhathazekile ngenhlala-kahle yezingane
  • umlingani uzizwa enganele ocansini futhi esongelwa yi-porn
  • ukulahleka kokusondelana ngokomzwelo kanye nokuzijabulisa ngocansi
Izinkinga zobulili
  • ukulahleka kwesifiso sobulili nomlingani wangempela
  • ubunzima ukuvuswa kanye / noma ukufezekisa i-orgasm ngaphandle kocansi
  • imicabango ethintekayo, imicabango, nezithombe ze-porn ngesikhathi sex
  • ukufunwa ngocansi noma inkani kwezocansi
  • ukuba nobunzima bokuxhuma uthando nokunakekela ngocansi
  • ukuzwa ngocansi kungalawulwa futhi kuyaphoqelelwa
  • ukukhulisa intshisakalo ebungozini obuyingozi, obonakalisayo, nokuhlukumeza, kanye / noma ubulili obungekho emthethweni
  • ukungoneliseki okukhulayo ngocansi
  • ukungasebenzi ngocansi - ukungakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm, ukumiswa komzimba, ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile
Ukuzenyanya
  • umuzwa onqanyuliwe kusuka kumanani abantu, izinkolelo nezinjongo
  • ukulahleka kobuqotho bomuntu
  • ukuzilimaza okonakele
  • imizwa ephikelelayo yokuba necala nehlazo
  • umuzwa olawulwa yi-porn
Ukungazinaki izindawo ezibalulekile empilweni
  • impilo yomuntu siqu (ukungalali kahle, ukukhathala, nokuzikhathalela)
  • impilo yomndeni (ukunganaki umlingani, izingane, izilwane ezifuywayo nemithwalo yemfanelo yasekhaya)
  • ukuphishekela umsebenzi nomsebenzi wesikole (ukugxila okuncishisiwe, ukukhiqiza, kanye nentuthuko)
  • ezezimali (ukusetshenziswa kwemali kwizisetshenziswa zocansi)
  • Ingokomoya (ukuhlukaniswa nokholo nokuzilolonga ngokomoya)
Umlutha we-Porn
  • ngokufisa i-porn kakhulu futhi ngokuqhubekayo
  • ubunzima ukulawula imicabango, noma ukuvezwa, nokusetshenziswa kwe-porn
  • ukungakwazi ukuyeka ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn naphezu kwemiphumela emibi
  • ukwehluleka okuphindaphindiwe ukuyeka ukusebenzisa i-porn
  • idinga okuqukethwe okweqisayo noma ukudalulwa okukhulu kwe-porn ukuthola umphumela ofanayo (izimpawu zokuhlala)
  • ubhekana nokungakhululeki kanye nokuxakeka lapho uncishwa i-porn (izimpawu zokuhoxisa)

Uhlu olungenhla luhunyushwe encwadini "I-Trap Porn”NguWendy Malz

Ubuchopho obusha

Ukutholwa kwezithombe zocansi zamahhala, ukusakazwa, okunobunzima obunzima kungenye yezindlela ezinkulu kakhulu zokuhlola umphakathi ezingakaze zivunyelwe emlandweni. Ingeza uhla lonke olusha lokuziphatha okuyingozi ebuchosheni obuvele bufuna ubungozi. Bona le vidiyo emfishane ukuqonda okuningi mayelana ubuchopho obusha nezeluleko kubazali ezivela ku-neuroscientist.

Siyethemba ukuthi lo mhlahlandlela wabazali bezithombe zocansi ze-Intanethi uzosiza izingane zakho zikwazi ukuthuthukisa ukuthuthukiswa kwezocansi ngokuphepha futhi zikuvumele ube ngumzali noma umnakekeli ongcono kakhulu ongaba yikho.

Intsha eningi ithi ifisa ukuthi abazali bayo babe matasa kakhulu ekuxoxeni nabo ngezithombe ezingcolile. Uma bengakwazi ukukucela usizo, bazoyaphi?

Iwebhusayithi enkulu kunazo zonke futhi ethandwa kakhulu I-Pornhub igqugquzela amavidiyo akhiqiza ukukhathazeka njengobulili obucashile, ukuhlukunyezwa, ukuhlukunyezwa, ukudlwengulwa kanye namaqembu ezigebengu. Incest ingenye yohlobo olukhula ngokushesha ngokusho I-Pornhubimibiko yakhe uqobo. Iningi lakhona likhululekile futhi lifinyeleleka kalula. I-Pornhub ibona lo bhubhane njengethuba elihle lokuhudula abasebenzisi abaningi futhi inikezela ukufinyelela kwamahhala kumasayithi abo we-premium (avame ukukhokhelwa) kuwo wonke amazwe.

Amavidiyo amafushane

Le minithi ye-2, iyagqama izithombe inikeza ukubuka konke okusheshayo. Ungayikhombisa nezingane zakho futhi njengoba ingenayo izithombe zocansi.Ukuphunyuka ogibeni lwe-porn

Le 5-umzuzu ividiyo icashunwe kudokhumentari evela eNew Zealand. Kuyo i-neurosurgeon ichaza ukuthi bunjani ubulutha be-porn futhi bubonisa ukuthi kufana kanjani nokulutha kwe-cocaine.

Le nkulumo ye-TEDx kaSolwazi Gail Dines “Ukukhulela esikweni eliqukethe ezocansi"(I-13 mins) ichaza ngamagama acacile ukuthi ama-video omculo, izingosi ze-porn kanye nabezindaba zenhlalo bakwakha kanjani ubulili bezingane zethu namuhla.

Nansi inkulumo ehlekisayo ye-TEDx (imizuzu engu-16) ebizwa ngokuthi “Yeka ukuthi i-Porn Porn ihlukumeza kanjani ngokocansi"Ngumama waseMelika nomfundisi wezocansi Cindy Pierce. Umhlahlandlela wabazali bakhe uthi kungani izingxoxo eziqhubekayo nezingane zakho mayelana nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile zidingekile kakhulu futhi yini ezithandayo. Bona ngezansi ukuthola izinsiza eziningi mayelana nokuthi ungaba kanjani lezo zingxoxo.

Izingane ezineminyaka eyisithupha ubudala zifinyelela ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile. Ezinye izingane ziyahehwa futhi zifune kakhulu lokhu, ezinye zihlukumezekile futhi zibe nobusuku obunzima. Izinto zokwenziwa ngabantu abulukhuni azilungele izingane zanoma yimuphi unyaka ngenxa yesigaba sazo sokukhula kobuchopho. Nayi umbiko ivuselelwe ngonyaka ka-2017 ibizwa nge- “… bengingazi ukuthi kujwayelekile ukubukwa…” ukuhlolwa okuyizinga kanye nenani lomthelela wezithombe zocansi ezi-inthanethi kumanani, izimo zengqondo, izinkolelo nokuziphatha kwezingane nabantu abasha. ” Kwakukhishwe kusuka eMiddlesex University yi-NSPCC kanye neKhomishini Yezingane yaseNgilandi naseWales.

Imibhalo emisha eyenziwe ngabazali kubazali ngemiphumela ye-Porn ezinganeni

Sincoma ngokuphelele ukuthi ubukele le vidiyo entsha. Ungakwazi bukela i-trailer yamahhala kuVimeo. Kungumibhalo eyenziwe ngabazali, abathi bangabenzi befilimu, yabazali. Ukuhlaziywa okuhle kakhulu kwendaba esesibonile futhi kunezibonelo ezinhle zendlela yokuba nezingxoxo ezikhohlisayo nezingane zakho.

Ukubuka ividiyo engaphansi kwayo kubiza i- $ 4.99 kuphela futhi yimali esetshenziswe kangcono ongathemba ngayo. (Asitholi mali ngalesi sincomo.) Ochwepheshe abaningi nezinsizakusebenza esizincomayo kulo mhlahlandlela wabazali nazo ziyavela kuleyo mbhalo. URob noZareen babeka yonke imali nobungcweti babo ekwenzeni lokhu njengenkonzo kwabanye abazali, ngakho-ke sicela uyithenge uma ungakwazi. Ngiyabonga. Uma ungafuni ukusebenzisa imali, kukhona amanye amavidiyo amahle kakhulu atholakala mahhala.

Izitho zangasese, nezitha nezindlela zokugcina ziphephile

Amathiphu aphezulu wokukhuluma nezingane

  1. “Ungasoli nehlazo” ingane yokubuka izithombe zocansi. Kuyo yonke indawo eku-inthanethi, kuvela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nakumavidiyo omculo. Kungaba nzima ukukugwema. Ezinye izingane ziyidlulisa ngenxa yokuhlekisa noma i-bravado, noma ingane yakho ingakhubeka kuyo. Kungenzeka ukuthi nayo bayifuna ngenkuthalo. Ukwenqabela ingane yakho ukuyibuka kuphela kuyenza ilingeke ngokwengeziwe, ngoba njengoba isisho sakudala siqhubeka, 'Izithelo ezingavunyelwe ziyathandeka kakhulu'.
  2. Gcina imigqa ye ukuxhumana kuvulekile ngakho-ke ukuthi uyisiteshi sabo sokuqala sokushayela ukuxoxisana ngezinkinga eziphathelene nocansi. Izingane zithandana ngokwemvelo ngezocansi kusukela esemncane. I-porn e-intanethi ibonakala njengendlela epholile yokufunda ukuthi ingaba kanjani okuhle kwezocansi. Vula futhi uhloniphe imizwa yakho mayelana nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Cabanga ukukhuluma ngokuzithokozisa kwakho kocansi njengomuntu osemncane, ngisho noma kungakuzwa kahle.
  3. Izingane azidingi inkulumo eyodwa enkulu mayelana nobulili. Bona udinga izingxoxo eziningi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi njengoba bedlula eminyakeni yentsha. Ngamunye kufanele abe neminyaka efanelekile, cela usizo uma uludinga. Obaba nomama bobabili badinga ukubamba iqhaza ekuzifundiseni bona kanye nezingane zabo ngomthelela wobuchwepheshe namuhla.
Siza ngalezo zingxoxo ezinzima
  1. Owayenguprofesa wesayensi yokuhlalisana kwabantu, umbhali nonina, uDkt Gail Dines, ungumsunguli weCustom Reframed. Umbone ekhuluma ne-TEDx "Ukukhulela esikweni eliqukethe ezocansi”(13 amaminithi). Yena nethimba lakhe bakha ithuluzi lamathuluzi lamahhala, elizosebenza kakhulu elizosiza abazali ukuthi bakhulise izingane ezikhuthaza ukubuka ezocansi. Ungaba kanjani nengxoxo: bheka i- Amasiko aphikisiwe Abazali Uhlelo.
  2. Le yincwadi entsha ebhalwe nguColette Smart, ongumama, owayenguthisha nodokotela wezengqondo obizwa ngokuthi “Bayoba Kulungile“. Incwadi inezibonelo ze-15 zezingxoxo ongaba nazo nezingane zakho. Iwebhusayithi futhi inezinye izingxoxo eziwusizo ze-TV nomlobi ngokwabelana nemibono ethile ebalulekile.
Amathiphu aphezulu mayelana nama-Smartphones
  1. Ukudambisa ukunika ingane yakho i-smartphone noma ithebhulethi isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka. Izingcingo ezingamaselula zisho ukuthi ungahlala uthintana. Ngenkathi kungabonakala njengomvuzo wokusebenza kanzima esikoleni samabanga aphansi noma samabanga aphansi ukwethula ingane yakho nge-smartphone ekungeneleni esikoleni samabanga aphakeme, bona lokho okwenzayo ekufinyeleleni kwabo ezifundweni ezinyangeni ezizayo. Ingabe izingane ziyakudinga ngempela ukufinyelela kwe-24 ihora lezinsuku ku-inthanethi? Ngenkathi izingane zingathola izabelo eziningi zomsebenzi wesikole okwenziwa online, ingabe ukuzijabulisa kungakhawulelwa kumaminithi we-60 ngosuku, noma njengokuhlola? Bangu eziningi zokusebenza ukuqapha ukusetshenziswa kwe-intanethi ngokukhethekile ngezinhloso zokuzijabulisa. Izingane ze-2 iminyaka nangaphansi akufanele zisetshenziswe izikrini.
  2. Vala i-intanethi ebusuku. Noma, okungenani, khipha zonke izingcingo, amaphilisi namadivayisi wemidlalo egumbini lokulala lengane yakho. Ukuntuleka kokulala okuvuselela amandla kuyanda ukucindezela, ukudangala nokukhathazeka ezinganeni eziningi namuhla. Badinga ukulala ubusuku bonke, amahora ayisishiyagalombili okungenani, ukubasiza ukuba bahlanganise ukufunda kosuku, ukubasize bakhule, benze imizwa yabo futhi bazizwe kahle.
  3. Vumela izingane zakho zikwazi lokho I-porn yenzelwe i-dollar yezigidigidigidi izinkampani zobuchwepheshe ukuze "bakhonze" abasebenzisi ngaphandle kokuqaphela kwabo ukwakha imikhuba ebenza babuyele ngokunye. Konke ngokugcina ukunaka kwabo. Izinkampani zithengisa futhi zabelana ngolwazi oluseduze mayelana nezifiso nemikhuba yomsebenzisi kumaqembu wesithathu nabathengisi. Yenziwe umlutha njengemidlalo e-intanethi, ukugembula kanye nemidiya yezenhlalo ukugcina abasebenzisi bebuyela emuva ngokuningi uma nje bekhathazekile noma bekhathazeka.
Ukuqinisekiswa kwe-Smartphone
  1. Ukubhekana nemibhikisho: Izingane zingabhikisha ekuqaleni, kodwa izingane eziningi zisitshele ukuthi zingathanda ukuthi abazali bazo bazibeke isikhathi sokubakhokha isikhathi esifanele futhi banikeze imingcele ecacile. Awukwenzi ingane yakho noma yimuphi umusa ngokuwashiya 'ngokoqobo' kumadivayisi abo.
  2. Ungazizwa unecala ngokuthatha isenzo sokuzibandakanya nezingane zakho. Impilo yabo yengqondo nokuphila kahle kakhulu ezandleni zakho. Zivikele ngolwazi nangenhliziyo evulekile ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba ihambe kule nkathi enselele yentuthuko. Nansi iseluleko kusuka kwengane yengqondo yengane.
  3. Recent ucwaningo iphakamisa ukuthi izihlungi zodwa ngeke zivikele izingane zakho ekufinyeleleni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile eziku-intanethi. Umhlahlandlela wabazali ugcizelela isidingo sokugcina imigqa yokuxhumana ivulekile njengobaluleke kakhulu. Ukwenza ucansi kube nzima ukufinyeleleka kodwa njalo kuyisiqalo esihle ikakhulukazi nezingane ezincane. Kuyafaneleka ukubeka ehlunga kuwo wonke amadivayisi e-inthanethi futhi ukuhlola on a njalo ukuthi bayasebenza. Bheka nge-Childline noma umhlinzeki wakho we-inthanethi mayelana nezeluleko zakamuva zokuhlunga.
Iziphi izinhlelo zokusebenza ezingasiza?
  1. Kunezinhlelo eziningi zesoftware nezinketho zokusekelwa. Ikydz uhlelo lokusebenza ukuvumela abazali ukuba baqaphele ukusetshenziswa kwezingane zabo. Igalari Guardian ikwazisa abazali uma isithombe esolisayo sibonakala kudivayisi yengane yabo. Isebenza ngezingozi eziphathelene nokuthumela imiyalezo nge-SMS.
  2. Moment is a uhlelo lokusebenza lwamahhala evumela umuntu ukuba aqaphele ukusebenzisa kwabo ku-intanethi, wabeka umkhawulo futhi athole ama-nudges uma efinyelela leyo mingcele. Abasebenzisi banomkhuba wokunciphisa ukusetshenziswa kwabo ngumkhawulo obalulekile. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lufana kodwa alukhululekile. Isiza abantu ukuqalisa ubuchopho babo ngokusiza endleleni. Kubizwa I-Brainbuddy.
  3. Nazi ezinye izinhlelo ezingase zibe lusizo: Amehlo E-Covum; I-Bark; I-NetNanny; Mobicip; Ukulawulwa Komzali weQustodio; I-WebWatcher; INorton Family Premiere; I-VIP Yasekhaya ye-OpenDNS; I-PureSight Multi. Ukuvela kwezinhlelo kulolu hlu akuyona into evunyelwe yi-The Reward Foundation. Asitholi nzuzo yemali ngokuthengiswa kwale mikhiqizo.

Amabhuku ezinconyiwe

Ubuningi bakho ku-cover ye-PornIncwadi enhle emakethe iyisikhulu sethu sokucwaninga esihlonishwayo uGary Wilson. Singasho lokho kodwa kuyenzeka kube yiqiniso. Kubizwa ngokuthi “Ubuchopho bakho ku-Porn: Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi kanye neSayensi eVukayo yokuMlutha”. Kuyisiqondisi esikhulu sabazali. Nikeza izingane zakho ukuba zifunde njengoba zinamakhulu izindaba ezenziwa abanye abantu abasha kanye nezinkinga zabo nge-porn. Abaningi baqala ukubuka i-inthanethi ye-porn besebancane.

UGary ungumfundisi wesayensi omuhle kakhulu ochaza umvuzo wobuchopho, noma isisusa, ngendlela efinyeleleka kakhulu kwabangewona ososayensi. Incwadi iyisibuyekezo esithandwayo sakhe I-TEDx ukukhuluma kusuka ku-2012.

Le ncwadi iyatholakala ngephepha, kwi-Kindle noma njenge-audiobook. Kwabuyekezwa ngo-Okthoba 2018 ukubheka ukuqashelwa kwe-World Health Organisation kwesigaba esisha sokuxilongwaIsiphazamiso Ekuziphatheni Kokuziphatha Kocansi okucashile“. Ukuhumusha kuyatholakala ngesiDashi, isi-Arabhu nesiHungary kuze kube manje, nabanye ngepayipi.

Setha Ubuchopho Bengane Yakho

Incwadi yengqondo yengane uDkt Victoria Dunckley "Setha kabusha i-Brain yengane yakho"Futhi mahhala blog chaza imiphumela yesikrini esiningi kakhulu esikrinini somntwana. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uhlela uhlelo lwalokho abazali abangakwenza ukuze basize ingane yabo ukuba ibuyele ithrekhi futhi.

UDkt Dunckley akakuhlukanisi ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kepha ugxile kakhulu ekusetshenzisweni kwe-inthanethi. Uthi cishe ama-80% wezingane azibonayo azinakho ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okutholakale ukuthi utholile futhi akuthandazelwa zona, njenge-ADHD, i-bipolar disorder, ukudangala, ukukhathazeka njll. Kunalokho abe nakho akubiza nge- 'electronic screen syndrome. ' Lesi sifo silingisa izimpawu eziningi zalezi zinkinga zempilo yengqondo ezivamile. Izinkinga zempilo yengqondo zivame ukwelapheka / zincishiswe ngokususa amagajethi we-elektroniki isikhathi esingamaviki ama-3 ezimweni eziningi, ezinye izingane zidinga isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba ziphinde ziqale ukusetshenziswa kepha zilinganiselwe kakhulu.

Incwadi yakhe ibuye ichaze nokuthi abazali bangakwenza kanjani lokhu kusihlahlandlela sabazali abasebenza ngezinyathelo ngokubambisana nesikole sengane ukuqinisekisa ukubambisana okuhle emiphakathini emibili.

Amabhuku Ezingane Ezincane

Ibhokisi likaPandora livulekile. Manje ngenzani? " UGail Poyner ungumqondo wezengqondo futhi unikeza ulwazi oluwusizo lobuchopho kanye nokuzivocavoca okulula ukusiza izingane zicabangele ngezinketho.

"Izithombe ezinhle, izithombe ezimbi"NguKristen Jensen noGail Poyner. Futhi incwadi enhle egxile engqondweni yengane.

Akunabantwana. Ukuvikela izingane. U-Liz Walker ubhale incwadi elula yezingane ezincane kakhulu ezinemibala egqamile.

Imfihlo ye-Hamish kanye neMfihlo. Le yincwadi entsha ebhalwe uLiz Walker wezingane ezineminyaka eyi-8 kuya kwengu-12.

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  5. Iseluleko esivela ku I-NSPCC mayelana ne-inthanethi ye-inthanethi.
  6. Kubazali eScotland ukuxhumana Izingane 1st.
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Kunemithombo enhle etholakalayo futhi emiphakathini esekelwe ekukholweni njengokuthi Ubuqotho bubuyiselwe kumaKatolika, kumaKristu ngokuvamile Iphrojekthi ye-Naked iqiniso (UK) Indlela I-Porn Eyingozi Ngayo (I-US), kanye MuslimMatters kulabo bokholo lwamaSulumane. Sicela usithinte uma kukhona amanye amaphrojekthi asuselwa enkolweni esingawasayina.

Izinkinga zomthetho

Ukusetshenziswa njalo kwezithombe zocansi ezi-inthanethi okwenziwa yizingane kwakha ubuchopho bengane, ithempulethi yazo evusa inkanuko yobulili. Inomthelela omkhulu ekuthumeleni imiyalezo yocansi kanye ne-cyberbullying. Izingane eziningi zibukela i-hardcore porn, kulapho zidinga khona amazinga aphakeme futhi aphakeme wokuvuselela ezocansi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ubuchopho buhlala futhi buyehluleke namazinga aphansi wokukhuthaza. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lokhu kungaholela ezinkingeni eziningi zengqondo nangokomzimba futhi kungabi nokuphendula okujabulisayo emisebenzini yansuku zonke. Ukukhathazeka okukhulu ngabazali kufanele kube yimiphumela yezomthetho engaba khona. Bona lapha ukuthola eminye imininingwane ebalulekile ekuthumeleni imiyalezo yocansi ngokuziphatha okubi, ukuziphindisela kuma-porn nokunye okuya ngokuya kushushiswa ngamaphoyisa. Kuthunyelwa imiyalezo yocansi eScotland. Kuthunyelwa imiyalezo yocansi I-England, Wales neNyakatho Ireland.

Autism Spectrum Disorders

Uma unengane ehlolwe ukuthi iku-Autism spectrum, kufanele wazi ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba sengozini enkulu yokuthola ukubhekelwa ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile kunezingane ezi-neurotypical. Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba semawodini, kungaba ngumqondo omuhle ukuba nayo ihlolwe uma kwenzeka. Izinsizwa ikakhulukazi ezine-ASD noma izidingo ezikhethekile zokufunda zimelwe ngokungafani nezibalo zokona ngokocansi. Kuyathinta cishe i-1% yabantu besibalo esikhulu kodwa ngaphezulu kwe-33% yabantu abahlukumeza ngokocansi abasesimweni esibanzi noma banobunzima bokufunda.

I-Autism spectrum disorder yisimo sezinzwa esikhona kusukela ekuzalweni. Akuyona inkinga yezempilo yengqondo. Ngenkathi kuyisimo esivame kakhulu kwabesilisa, abesifazane nabo bangaba nakho. Ngemininingwane engaphezulu funda la mabhulogi porn and autism; indaba yomama; futhi autism: yangempela noma fake?

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