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I-Reward Foundation ubuhlakani bezocansi nobuphaso kwezemfundo. Sivunyelwe yiRoyal College of General Practitioners ukuthi sifundise nge Impilo yengqondo futhi impilo yempilo imithelela yocansi lwe-inthanethi. Senza ukuthi ucwaningo mayelana nothando, ubulili kanye nezithombe zocansi ze-Intanethi zitholakale emphakathini wonke. Akukhona ukuhlakanipha ukukhuluma ngocansi nothando ngobuhlobo namuhla ngaphandle kokuvuma iqhaza lezithombe zocansi ze-inthanethi ukuthonya okulindelekile nokuziphatha, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwentsha.

"Kuzo zonke izinto ezenziwa ku-inthanethi, i-porn inamandla kakhulu okuba umlutha, " kusho udokotela oyi-Dutch neuroscientist Gert Holstege.

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Ukuqinisekiswa kobudala bezithombe zocansi

Sincoma le minithi ye-2 izithombe njenge-primer. Ukuchazwa okuhle kwemiphumela ye-porn ebuchosheni, bheka lokhu Isikhathi se-5 sikhishwe kusuka kudokhumenti ene-neurosurgeon, ucwaningo oluvela eNyuvesi yaseCambridge kanye nesipiliyoni sabasebenzisi abathile abasebasha.

Nazi ezinye ezilula ukuzihlola izivivinyo eziklanywe ngabasebenza ngama-neuroscientist ukubona ukuthi ngabe i-porn ithinta wena noma umuntu osondelene nawe.

Izithombe zocansi ze-Intanethi azifani ne-porn yesikhathi esedlule. Kungumfutho 'ongaphezu kokujwayelekile' futhi uma ugcotshwa njalo, kungathinta ubuchopho ngendlela efanayo ne-cocaine noma i-heroin. Akufaneleki ikakhulukazi ezinganeni ezakha ama-20-30% wabasebenzisi kumasayithi abantu abadala. Lokhu kukodwa kuthethelela umthetho wokuqinisekisa kweminyaka kahulumeni wase-UK ukukhawulela ukufinyelela kwezingane nokuvikela impilo yazo.

Izingane ezineminyaka eyisikhombisa ubudala zitholwa nezithombe ezingcolile zobulukhuni ngenxa yokuntuleka kokuhlolwa okusebenzayo kweminyaka ngokusho ucwaningo ithunywe yiBritish Board of Film Classization. Izithombe zocansi zenzelwa inzuzo, ziyimboni yamadola ezigidigidi. Ayenzelwe ukufundisa izingane ngocansi nangobudlelwano.

Isilingo Esikhulu Esingavunyelwe Somphakathi

Akukaze kube khona emlandweni lapho izinto ezingcolile ezivuselelayo zezocansi bezitholakala ngokukhululeka njengamanje. Kuluvivinyo lomphakathi olukhulu kunazo zonke, olungalawulwa emlandweni wesintu. Esikhathini esedlule esinezithombe ezingcolile zobukhuni bekunzima ukufinyelela kuzo, ikakhulukazi ezitolo zabantu abadala ezinamalayisense ezivimbela ukungena kunoma ngubani ongaphansi kweminyaka engu-18. Namuhla, iningi lezithombe zocansi zitholakala mahhala ngama-Smartphones kanye namathebulethi ngaphandle kokuqinisekiswa kweminyaka yobudala kwabavakashi. Ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kukhiqiza a ububanzi obubanzi of ingqondo nezinkinga zempilo yomzimba njengokukhathazeka komphakathi, ukudangala, ukungasebenzi ngokocansi kanye nomlutha wokubala abambalwa. Lokhu kwenzeka kuwo wonke amaqembu eminyaka.

Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukuzitika ngocansi kwe-inthanethi kunganciphisa isifiso, nokweneliseka okuvela, ebudlelwaneni bangempela bezocansi. Inani elikhulayo lamadoda aneminyaka yobudala ephakathi ahluleka ukwenza ubulili nabalingani bawo. Intsha iya ngokwanda futhi inobudlova ekuziphatheni kwayo ngokobulili.

Inhloso yethu ukusiza abantu abadala kanye nabaqeqeshiwe ukuthi bakwazi ukuthola ubufakazi abadingayo ukuze bazizwe beqiniseka ngokwanele ukuba bathathe isinyathelo esifanele ukusiza iziguli zabo, amaklayenti nezingane zabo siqu.

'Amandla Okuzimboni' I-inthanethi ye-Intanethi

Ukungenisa i-porn kungaba nomthelela ongemuhle empilweni yezocansi, ngokomqondo, ekuziphatheni, ebudlelwaneni, ekutholeni, ekukhiqizeni nasebugebengwini. Uma nje umsebenzisi eqhubeka nokuyaluma, izinguquko zobuchopho ziba zigxilile futhi kube nzima ukubuyela emuva. Ukusetshenziswa ngezikhathi ezithile akunakwenzeka ukudala ukulimala okungapheli. Ukulungisa ushintsho olusebenzayo lobuchopho bekulokhu okuqoshiwe nokusetshenziswa okuncane kwamahora amathathu kwezithombe zocansi ngesonto.

Ubuchopho bethu abuvumelananga nezimo zokubhekana nokukhuthaza okukhulu kakhulu kwe-hyper. Izingane zisengozini enkulu yokunikezwa okungapheli kwama-porn, ukusakazwa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Lokhu kungenxa yomphumela wayo onamandla kubuchopho babo obucayi esigabeni esikhulu sokuthuthuka nokufunda kobungqingili.

Izithombe zocansi eziningi ze-inthanethi namuhla azikhombisi ukusondelana nokuthembana, kepha ubulili obungaphephile, ukugqugquzela kanye nodlame, ikakhulukazi kubantu besifazane nakumahlanga amancane. Izingane zihlelela ubuchopho bazo ukuze zidinge ubutsha obuqhubekayo kanye namazinga aphezulu okuqalwa okuvuselelekile abangahlangani nabo empilweni yangempela. Kuyabaqeqesha nabo ukuba abe-voyeurs.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi abaningi bazizwa benganele ngocansi futhi behluleka ukufunda amakhono okuhlangana nabawadingayo ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwane obunempilo nobusondele isikhathi eside. Lokhu kuholela ekubeni nesizungu, ukukhathazeka komphakathi kanye nokudangala kwenani elandayo.

Abazali

Iningi labantu bokuqala ukubukela izithombe ezingcolile laba ngengozi, njengoba zingaphezulu kwamaphesenti angama-60 ezingane ezake zabona izithombe zocansi zithi ukubuka kwazo izithombe ezingcolile akuhlosile ngokusho kwakamuva ucwaningo. Izingane zichaze ukuthi zizizwa zikhuluphele futhi zididekile, ikakhulukazi lezo ezazike zabona izithombe zocansi lapho zazingaphansi kweminyaka eyi-10.

Lokhu kungamangaza abazali abaningi. Uma ufuna ukufunda kabanzi, bheka eyethu UMhlahlandlela Wabazali Abamahhala we-Internet Izithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile ukusiza ukuhlomisa abazali kanye nabanakekeli babe nalezi zingxoxo eziyinselele nezingane zakho kanye nokuxhumanisa ukusekelwa nezikole uma kudingeka. Amaphoyisa aseKent uxwayise ngokuthi abazali bangashushiswa ngenxa 'yocansi' yezingane zabo uma kungukuthi banesivumelwano kwinkontileka yocingo. Bona ikhasi lethu mayelana ukuthumelelana imiyalezo yocansi kanye nomthetho eScotland Futhi kuthunyelwa imiyalezo yocansi ngaphakathi I-England, Wales neNyakatho Ireland.

Izikole

Sisanda kwethula uchungechunge lwe izinhlelo zokufunda yothisha abazosebenza nge “Isingeniso Sokuzithumelelana Imiyalezo Yezokuthunyelwa Kwezithombe Ezingcwele”; “Ukuthumelelana imiyalezo yocansi kanye nengqondo yobusha”; “Ukuthumelelana imiyalezo yocansi kanye nomthetho, kanye nawe”; "Izithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Ziyalingwa"; "Uthando, Ezothando Nezocansi"; kanye ne- "Izithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile kanye Nomnotho We-Attention 'ngezinto zokucebisa, zokuzijabulisa ezimnandi nezinokuxhumana ezinikeza isikhala esiphephile sabafundi sokuxoxa ngazo zonke lezi zinto ezibalulekile. Akukho ukusola noma ukubabaza, amaqiniso kuphela, ukuze abantu bakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezinolwazi.

Silindele ukuthi iqoqo lezifundo liguqulwe ikakhulukazi ezikoleni ezenzelwe ukukholwa futhi ngasekupheleni kuka-2020, yize izifundo ezikhona manje kufanelekile njengoba kungekho kukhonjiswa kwezithombe zocansi futhi othisha bangaguqula noma yiluphi ulimi olungase luhambisane nemfundiso yenkolo.

Ucwaningo

I-Reward Foundation ibheka ucwaningo olusha nsuku zonke futhi ifaka izinto ezithuthukile ezintweni zethu. Siphinde sikhiqize ucwaningo lwethu ikakhulukazi Izibuyekezo ocwaningweni lwakamuva ukuze abanye bakwazi ukuqhubeka nokwazi okusha ngentuthuko entsha.

Kukhona manje izifundo eziyisithupha okukhombisa a isixhumanisi se-causal phakathi kokusetshenziswa kocansi nokulimaza evela kulowo msebenzi.

E-Reward Foundation siyabika izindaba kusuka ezinkulungwaneni zamadoda nabesifazane abaye bathuthukisa okuyinselele ukusetshenziswa kocansi kwe-inthanethi. Lolu cwaningo olungakahleleki lubalulekile ekubhekeni izitayela zamanje ezingathatha isikhathi eside ukuthi ziboniswe ocwaningweni oluhlelekile lokufunda. Abaningi bazamile ukuyeka i-porn futhi bathola izinzuzo ezahlukahlukene ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba ngenxa yalokho. Bona le nsizwaindaba kaNksz.

"Umlutha we-porn"

Izinkampani zezithombe zocansi bezilokhu ziphambili ekuthuthukisweni nasekuhlelweni kwe-inthanethi. Ukugcotshwa ngokweqile kwezithombe zocansi ze-inthanethi kudala ukuthi ubuchopho buveze izifiso ezinamandla zokuningi okuthonya imicabango nokuziphatha komsebenzisi we-porn ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Okwanda inani labasebenzisi lokhu kungaholela ukucindezela ukuziphatha kwengculazi ngaphambili ebaziwa ngokuthi 'umlutha wobulili' noma 'umlutha wezocansi' kwabanye abantu.

Abanye abasebenza ngezocansi abajabule ngokusetshenziswa kwaleli gama kodwa kukhombisa lokho abasebenzisi abaningi abazizwa ngakho ngokungakwazi kwabo ukulawula umkhuba wabo wobulili obucansi. Ngokuya kwe- ucwaningo lwamuva, ngaphezu kwe-80% yabantu abafuna usizo lwezokwelapha ngombiko wokuziphatha okuphathelene nocansi ophuthumayo banenkinga ehlobene ne-porn. Bheka lokhu okuhle Inkulumo ye-TEDx (Amaminithi angu-9) kusuka ngoJanuwari 2020 ngudokotela oyi-Cambridge Schmidt waseCambridge oqeqeshelwe ubuchwephesha ngemithambo ye-inthanethi ukuze afunde nge-“Beulsial Behaeve Disorder Disorder” nge-Compulsive Sexual Behaeve Disorder. Lesi sigaba esisha esikhishwe yiWorld Health Organisation senkinga yezempilo yezocansi okubandakanya nezinkinga ezihlobene nezocansi.

Ifilosofi yethu

Izithombe zocansi namuhla 'zingamandla ezimboni' ngokuya ngobuningi obukhona kanye namazinga okukhuthaza, uma kuqhathaniswa nezithombe zocansi ezenzeka eminyakeni eyi-10 noma eyi-15 eyedlule. Ukusetshenziswa kwayo kungukuzikhethela komuntu, asikupheleli ukuvimba izithombe ezingcolile ezingokomthetho zabantu abadala. Kepha sifuna ukwenza abantu babone ubungozi ikakhulukazi ezinganeni. Sifuna ukusiza abasebenzisi babe sesimweni sokukhetha ukukhetha 'ukwaziswa' ngokususelwa kubufakazi obuhle kakhulu ocwaningweni olutholakalayo njengamanje kanye nezinketho zokuthola uphawu, uma kudingeka.

Senza umkhankaso wokunciphisa ukufinyeleleka kalula kwezingane ezinganeni zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi ngenxa yokuthi ziningi ucwaningo Amaphepha abonisa ukuthi kuyingozi ezinganeni ezingeni elikhungethwe ukuthuthukiswa kobuchopho. Kuye kwaba nokunyuka okukhulu ekuhlukumezweni ngokocansi kwengane eminyakeni eyisishiyagalombili ye-7, ekulimaweni okuphathelene nocansi okuhlobene nocansi ngokusho kochwepheshe bezempilo abaye bafika emihlanganweni yethu yokufundisa futhi mhlawumbe ngisho ukufa. Kuxhumene nodlame lwasekhaya nokuhlukumezeka nakho.

Simele imizamo kaHulumeni wase-UK yokuphoqelela ukuqinisekiswa kweminyaka efanelekile yezingosi zezocansi ezentengiso nezingosi zokuxhumana ukuze izingane zingakhubeki kalula kanjalo. Ngeke ithathe indawo yesidingo semfundo mayelana nobungozi. Futhi ubani ozuzayo uma singenzi lutho? Imboni yezocansi eyizigidigidi zamarandi. Uhulumeni wase-UK uhlela ukubhekana ne-porn etholakala ngemithombo yezokuxhumana ehlongozwayo Iphepha elimhlophe ku-Harms Online. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi kube ngumthetho kuze kube ngu-2022 ekuqaleni.

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